"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You need to be real with me
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I mean Big Worm.
Look, she means UP your sexual state. REad Gunwitch or join my discussion in the Tips section. You need to understand, women love to be fvcked, and it's our job to deliver that.
Many guys are afraid of their horniness, so they hide it around chicks. This pisses chicks off.
Then there's guys that are not afraid to be horny, but they can't control their horny and they come off goofy and stupid.
Then theres guys that ARE horny, and know how to CONTROL and CHANNEL their horniness, those are the PUAs.
Join my discussion, and if you are talking about a black chick, then YES, you really should join in on my disuccion.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I realiized that what you say really is true in college - where nobody wants to have relationships and just wanna bang. That being the case - working on body language is something even more important than i realize. and ima have to work on projecting sexual vibe on certain types of girls.
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It's very simple, you know how you get horny around a chick?
Okay, take your horniness, and channel it through your eyes, the way you walk, the way you talk, how you touch her, and in your conversation.
It's a non verbal "I'm bout to fvck the shyt outta you." It's not the sloppy verbal shouting, "I wanna fvck the shyt outta you!"
See what I mean? And even outside of college, it's the same. This never changes.
Get this down pat, and keep it. It will be with you for the rest of your life, and you might have 90 other problems, but a chick won't be one of them.
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Agreed.Long Duck Dong said:
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Girls really don't try to give guys wrong advice, but girls just don't know why they like a guy, they just like him.
So, this is why mommy and your chick friends can't give you dating advice. They can make sure your appearance is great, lol, but ummmm, let's leave the inner and outer game to Gunwitch and Pook lol.