"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I mean Big Worm.
Look, she means UP your sexual state. REad Gunwitch or join my discussion in the Tips section. You need to understand, women love to be fvcked, and it's our job to deliver that.
Many guys are afraid of their horniness, so they hide it around chicks. This pisses chicks off.
Then there's guys that are not afraid to be horny, but they can't control their horny and they come off goofy and stupid.
Then theres guys that ARE horny, and know how to CONTROL and CHANNEL their horniness, those are the PUAs.
Join my discussion, and if you are talking about a black chick, then YES, you really should join in on my disuccion.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I realiized that what you say really is true in college - where nobody wants to have relationships and just wanna bang. That being the case - working on body language is something even more important than i realize. and ima have to work on projecting sexual vibe on certain types of girls.
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It's very simple, you know how you get horny around a chick?
Okay, take your horniness, and channel it through your eyes, the way you walk, the way you talk, how you touch her, and in your conversation.
It's a non verbal "I'm bout to fvck the shyt outta you." It's not the sloppy verbal shouting, "I wanna fvck the shyt outta you!"
See what I mean? And even outside of college, it's the same. This never changes.
Get this down pat, and keep it. It will be with you for the rest of your life, and you might have 90 other problems, but a chick won't be one of them.
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Agreed.Long Duck Dong said:
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Girls really don't try to give guys wrong advice, but girls just don't know why they like a guy, they just like him.
So, this is why mommy and your chick friends can't give you dating advice. They can make sure your appearance is great, lol, but ummmm, let's leave the inner and outer game to Gunwitch and Pook lol.