If u call and she doesn't answer or call u back how long should u wait before u make the final and last call before nexting? Say she does not have your number cos when u umber closed u took hers, u mnay mis call to check its real but she still might not save it. Should u send a text after the next call just to arrange date plans, and howlong after should u wait if she does not pick up the 2nd call?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
you make the 1st call and she doesnt answer or call u back how long to wait before ne
- Thread starter big weezy
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
( . )( . )
Banned
Why do you keep making the same bullsh!t AFC themed posts, this is like your third post on the same subject.
Maybe read the bible and stop wasting everyones time with this pathetic crap?
Maybe read the bible and stop wasting everyones time with this pathetic crap?
Its not in the biblle I looked, it assumes she'll answer the call 1st time where does it say how long to wait before u call again, if u can find where this in the bible then it'd be much appreciated os I've looked and I can't find which section/chapter
( . )( . ) said:
( . )( . )
Banned
I'm sure it comes under neediness or having other options. It's not rocket science, you make the call you set a date, if she says no or makes an excuse other than a death in her immediate family you next her, she's not interested.
What are you not understanding here?
And you clearly havn't read the bible, if you had these continuous ridiculous questions would be non existant.
What are you not understanding here?
And you clearly havn't read the bible, if you had these continuous ridiculous questions would be non existant.
Mantis Toboggan
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 27, 2010
- Messages
- 859
- Reaction score
- 58
Do you really need people to tell you this?big weezy said:
You called her once and she didn't respond? Okay, give it a second try a day or two later. But don't give her a third chance...
Or what the hell, man...just do what you want. There's no exact science to this. It's common sense. One un-returned call is bad. Two is a deal-breaker. And if you gave her a third shot, then that's pathetic. Common sense.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
imarockstar
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 1, 2008
- Messages
- 153
- Reaction score
- 17
haha Phat thats some funny shiz. girls know when your calling because it shows up on their phone......my alarm wakes me up in the morning because i set my alarm
killahpl
Don Juan
Despite what everyone else wrote in this thread, I'm just gonna tell you what has worked for me.
Called a girl on a Sunday afternoon once, she didn't answer. Waited till Tuesday, called again, and again, no answer, but this time she sent a text, 'sorry, can't answer the phone right now.'
I decided to give her a third and final chance on the Saturday after that Tueday, called her, she answered, we had a great chat, got together, it went sweet.
Called a girl on a Sunday afternoon once, she didn't answer. Waited till Tuesday, called again, and again, no answer, but this time she sent a text, 'sorry, can't answer the phone right now.'
I decided to give her a third and final chance on the Saturday after that Tueday, called her, she answered, we had a great chat, got together, it went sweet.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
I'm guessing you didn't leave a voicemail? I'd wait for a couple days at the least and call one more time; if she doesn't answer, don't leave a message. Instead send a text letting her know who you are....
Women love texting and at least if she responds the door is still slightly ajar. The last girl I was dating I NEVER talked to her on the phone, we would completely communicate though text. Then again she was the one texting me 90% of the time and had super high interest.
But the point is that texting in my opinion will give you a much better chance of hearing back from her if she has any inkling of interest.
Keep meeting new girls; lots of newbies think they fuvk things up on the phone call and beat themselves up for a) not leaving a message b) leaving a message c) calling at the wrong time........ the reality is if you did your job correctly when you met her, she'll be excited to hear from you.
PIMP
Women love texting and at least if she responds the door is still slightly ajar. The last girl I was dating I NEVER talked to her on the phone, we would completely communicate though text. Then again she was the one texting me 90% of the time and had super high interest.
But the point is that texting in my opinion will give you a much better chance of hearing back from her if she has any inkling of interest.
Keep meeting new girls; lots of newbies think they fuvk things up on the phone call and beat themselves up for a) not leaving a message b) leaving a message c) calling at the wrong time........ the reality is if you did your job correctly when you met her, she'll be excited to hear from you.
PIMP
Accension
Senior Don Juan
My god.
Go to the HS forums, learn to write punctuated English and stop asking retarded questions that have already been answered over 9000 times here.
If your post was in any way unique, I'd probably help you, but da>, this gets repetitive man.
There's no right time to call her.
Just call her between too soon and too late.
This stuff is all common sense; don't depend on these people or you'll be making a thread for every bloody girl like they're special or some shi>.
Go to the HS forums, learn to write punctuated English and stop asking retarded questions that have already been answered over 9000 times here.
If your post was in any way unique, I'd probably help you, but da>, this gets repetitive man.
There's no right time to call her.
Just call her between too soon and too late.
This stuff is all common sense; don't depend on these people or you'll be making a thread for every bloody girl like they're special or some shi>.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
big weezy, read the 2 strikes rule and oh yeah stop making silly posts till you have read the dj bible.
Please, always leave a voicemail, SPECIALLY if she doesn't have your #. Otherwise it seems creepy, stalker-ish behavior. And this is what girls say, not me.
One thing that can eliminate missed phonecalls is to text her before you call. A text like "hey whats up" and 3- 5 mins of fluff talk, then call her.
She will be 100x times more likely to pick up!
One thing that can eliminate missed phonecalls is to text her before you call. A text like "hey whats up" and 3- 5 mins of fluff talk, then call her.
She will be 100x times more likely to pick up!