If u call and she doesn't answer or call u back how long should u wait before u make the final and last call before nexting? Say she does not have your number cos when u umber closed u took hers, u mnay mis call to check its real but she still might not save it. Should u send a text after the next call just to arrange date plans, and howlong after should u wait if she does not pick up the 2nd call?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
you make the 1st call and she doesnt answer or call u back how long to wait before ne
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Why do you keep making the same bullsh!t AFC themed posts, this is like your third post on the same subject.
Maybe read the bible and stop wasting everyones time with this pathetic crap?
Maybe read the bible and stop wasting everyones time with this pathetic crap?
Its not in the biblle I looked, it assumes she'll answer the call 1st time where does it say how long to wait before u call again, if u can find where this in the bible then it'd be much appreciated os I've looked and I can't find which section/chapter
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I'm sure it comes under neediness or having other options. It's not rocket science, you make the call you set a date, if she says no or makes an excuse other than a death in her immediate family you next her, she's not interested.
What are you not understanding here?
And you clearly havn't read the bible, if you had these continuous ridiculous questions would be non existant.
What are you not understanding here?
And you clearly havn't read the bible, if you had these continuous ridiculous questions would be non existant.
Mantis Toboggan
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Do you really need people to tell you this?big weezy said:
You called her once and she didn't respond? Okay, give it a second try a day or two later. But don't give her a third chance...
Or what the hell, man...just do what you want. There's no exact science to this. It's common sense. One un-returned call is bad. Two is a deal-breaker. And if you gave her a third shot, then that's pathetic. Common sense.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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haha Phat thats some funny shiz. girls know when your calling because it shows up on their phone......my alarm wakes me up in the morning because i set my alarm
killahpl
Don Juan
Despite what everyone else wrote in this thread, I'm just gonna tell you what has worked for me.
Called a girl on a Sunday afternoon once, she didn't answer. Waited till Tuesday, called again, and again, no answer, but this time she sent a text, 'sorry, can't answer the phone right now.'
I decided to give her a third and final chance on the Saturday after that Tueday, called her, she answered, we had a great chat, got together, it went sweet.
Called a girl on a Sunday afternoon once, she didn't answer. Waited till Tuesday, called again, and again, no answer, but this time she sent a text, 'sorry, can't answer the phone right now.'
I decided to give her a third and final chance on the Saturday after that Tueday, called her, she answered, we had a great chat, got together, it went sweet.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
I'm guessing you didn't leave a voicemail? I'd wait for a couple days at the least and call one more time; if she doesn't answer, don't leave a message. Instead send a text letting her know who you are....
Women love texting and at least if she responds the door is still slightly ajar. The last girl I was dating I NEVER talked to her on the phone, we would completely communicate though text. Then again she was the one texting me 90% of the time and had super high interest.
But the point is that texting in my opinion will give you a much better chance of hearing back from her if she has any inkling of interest.
Keep meeting new girls; lots of newbies think they fuvk things up on the phone call and beat themselves up for a) not leaving a message b) leaving a message c) calling at the wrong time........ the reality is if you did your job correctly when you met her, she'll be excited to hear from you.
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Women love texting and at least if she responds the door is still slightly ajar. The last girl I was dating I NEVER talked to her on the phone, we would completely communicate though text. Then again she was the one texting me 90% of the time and had super high interest.
But the point is that texting in my opinion will give you a much better chance of hearing back from her if she has any inkling of interest.
Keep meeting new girls; lots of newbies think they fuvk things up on the phone call and beat themselves up for a) not leaving a message b) leaving a message c) calling at the wrong time........ the reality is if you did your job correctly when you met her, she'll be excited to hear from you.
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My god.
Go to the HS forums, learn to write punctuated English and stop asking retarded questions that have already been answered over 9000 times here.
If your post was in any way unique, I'd probably help you, but da>, this gets repetitive man.
There's no right time to call her.
Just call her between too soon and too late.
This stuff is all common sense; don't depend on these people or you'll be making a thread for every bloody girl like they're special or some shi>.
Go to the HS forums, learn to write punctuated English and stop asking retarded questions that have already been answered over 9000 times here.
If your post was in any way unique, I'd probably help you, but da>, this gets repetitive man.
There's no right time to call her.
Just call her between too soon and too late.
This stuff is all common sense; don't depend on these people or you'll be making a thread for every bloody girl like they're special or some shi>.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
big weezy, read the 2 strikes rule and oh yeah stop making silly posts till you have read the dj bible.
Please, always leave a voicemail, SPECIALLY if she doesn't have your #. Otherwise it seems creepy, stalker-ish behavior. And this is what girls say, not me.
One thing that can eliminate missed phonecalls is to text her before you call. A text like "hey whats up" and 3- 5 mins of fluff talk, then call her.
She will be 100x times more likely to pick up!
One thing that can eliminate missed phonecalls is to text her before you call. A text like "hey whats up" and 3- 5 mins of fluff talk, then call her.
She will be 100x times more likely to pick up!