SeymourCake
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It means that you are secure and she feels secure around you.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You make me feel safe
- Thread starter phillies
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
so I have been told "i feel safe with you" now from a LDR that will go physical tonight, and for the next week.
IMO, she is feeling, and has expressed exactly the type of things @LiveYourDream has been saying...
listen to her.
This will be the first time for me to go to a woman first meeting, but scheduling doesnt work out for her.
My first time to St Petersburg Russia anyway, so I cant loose. RT tickets were only 200$ (train would have been about 100-150). StP is only 250mi away anyway...
IMO, she is feeling, and has expressed exactly the type of things @LiveYourDream has been saying...
listen to her.
This will be the first time for me to go to a woman first meeting, but scheduling doesnt work out for her.
My first time to St Petersburg Russia anyway, so I cant loose. RT tickets were only 200$ (train would have been about 100-150). StP is only 250mi away anyway...
MrWood
Master Don Juan
midterm report
the safe thing is in effect, however she had her period and wouldnt want to have sex, but it would have been our first time, she confesses to no sex in a year. Got head every day and 10 minutes before leaving without initiating. She has work the next 3 days until 10am-9pm, I came back home early.
She is a HB7 (stunning breasts passed the pencil test) will turn 44 next week.
She said she will come here Friday, let's see...
the safe thing is in effect, however she had her period and wouldnt want to have sex, but it would have been our first time, she confesses to no sex in a year. Got head every day and 10 minutes before leaving without initiating. She has work the next 3 days until 10am-9pm, I came back home early.
She is a HB7 (stunning breasts passed the pencil test) will turn 44 next week.
She said she will come here Friday, let's see...
MrWood
Master Don Juan
about this HB* rating... So how exactly should this work?
If I compared her to average 44yo American HB7, she is clearly a HB8.5+
she did not wear any fancy dress, shirt and loose jeans, no makeup..
Oldest woman I dated in over 6 years
If I compared her to average 44yo American HB7, she is clearly a HB8.5+
she did not wear any fancy dress, shirt and loose jeans, no makeup..
Oldest woman I dated in over 6 years
Tictac
Banned
Its a subjective pedestal system. It means nothing.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
I figured its more like your buddys drinking beer watching chicks go by and rating them