SeymourCake
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It means that you are secure and she feels secure around you.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You make me feel safe
- Thread starter phillies
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
so I have been told "i feel safe with you" now from a LDR that will go physical tonight, and for the next week.
IMO, she is feeling, and has expressed exactly the type of things @LiveYourDream has been saying...
listen to her.
This will be the first time for me to go to a woman first meeting, but scheduling doesnt work out for her.
My first time to St Petersburg Russia anyway, so I cant loose. RT tickets were only 200$ (train would have been about 100-150). StP is only 250mi away anyway...
IMO, she is feeling, and has expressed exactly the type of things @LiveYourDream has been saying...
listen to her.
This will be the first time for me to go to a woman first meeting, but scheduling doesnt work out for her.
My first time to St Petersburg Russia anyway, so I cant loose. RT tickets were only 200$ (train would have been about 100-150). StP is only 250mi away anyway...
MrWood
Master Don Juan
midterm report
the safe thing is in effect, however she had her period and wouldnt want to have sex, but it would have been our first time, she confesses to no sex in a year. Got head every day and 10 minutes before leaving without initiating. She has work the next 3 days until 10am-9pm, I came back home early.
She is a HB7 (stunning breasts passed the pencil test) will turn 44 next week.
She said she will come here Friday, let's see...
the safe thing is in effect, however she had her period and wouldnt want to have sex, but it would have been our first time, she confesses to no sex in a year. Got head every day and 10 minutes before leaving without initiating. She has work the next 3 days until 10am-9pm, I came back home early.
She is a HB7 (stunning breasts passed the pencil test) will turn 44 next week.
She said she will come here Friday, let's see...
MrWood
Master Don Juan
about this HB* rating... So how exactly should this work?
If I compared her to average 44yo American HB7, she is clearly a HB8.5+
she did not wear any fancy dress, shirt and loose jeans, no makeup..
Oldest woman I dated in over 6 years
If I compared her to average 44yo American HB7, she is clearly a HB8.5+
she did not wear any fancy dress, shirt and loose jeans, no makeup..
Oldest woman I dated in over 6 years
Tictac
Banned
Its a subjective pedestal system. It means nothing.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
I figured its more like your buddys drinking beer watching chicks go by and rating them