"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"You love me"

tick37

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pvf94 said:
I'm not madly in love with her or anything, I wouldn't mind an ltr is what I'm saying.

If she says the "you love me" line again what should I say in return?
Well, whatever you say, don't let it be based on the fear of losing her. Anything done out of fear is usually the wrong thing to do.

Personally, I'd say, "No, but in maybe in time".
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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pvf94

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That sounds appropriate...I just want her to say it first. haha as I was typing this she called and asked me what I want for my birthday...and that she is doing something for me tonight.

maybe some head? hahahha
 

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pvf94 said:
I heard her stuff gettin wet....
that s hilarious... i heard a pvssy make some weird noises while being penetrated but i guess i wasn't paying enough attention when it was getting wet

some more serious thoughts: you ve spent everyday of the last 2 months with a girl for who you developped a textbook case of oneitis, you haven't got laid and it seems that if you do eventually get laid it s gonna be on her terms, meaning you have no power in this relationship.

my advice to you: first figure what you want from this girl. second, do whatever it takes to achieve your goal without having the fear of loosing her. women admire men who can put it all on the line, not wussies who satisfy their every need.

one last tip: if you re looking for a ltr, make sure you fvck her first and she is the one bringing up this issue. If you do it the other way around, you ll loose power over your relationship
 

pvf94

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drak_ool said:
that s hilarious... i heard a pvssy make some weird noises while being penetrated but i guess i wasn't paying enough attention when it was getting wet

some more serious thoughts: you ve spent everyday of the last 2 months with a girl for who you developped a textbook case of oneitis, you haven't got laid and it seems that if you do eventually get laid it s gonna be on her terms, meaning you have no power in this relationship.

my advice to you: first figure what you want from this girl. second, do whatever it takes to achieve your goal without having the fear of loosing her. women admire men who can put it all on the line, not wussies who satisfy their every need.

one last tip: if you re looking for a ltr, make sure you fvck her first and she is the one bringing up this issue. If you do it the other way around, you ll loose power over your relationship
She has said on multiple occasions "you wanna **** me dont you" and im like uhhh ya haha, and 5 mins later im grabbing her boobs and making out with her....I just need to step it up and make the ho say no.
 
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