"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"You love me"

tick37

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pvf94 said:
I'm not madly in love with her or anything, I wouldn't mind an ltr is what I'm saying.

If she says the "you love me" line again what should I say in return?
Well, whatever you say, don't let it be based on the fear of losing her. Anything done out of fear is usually the wrong thing to do.

Personally, I'd say, "No, but in maybe in time".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pvf94

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That sounds appropriate...I just want her to say it first. haha as I was typing this she called and asked me what I want for my birthday...and that she is doing something for me tonight.

maybe some head? hahahha
 

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pvf94 said:
I heard her stuff gettin wet....
that s hilarious... i heard a pvssy make some weird noises while being penetrated but i guess i wasn't paying enough attention when it was getting wet

some more serious thoughts: you ve spent everyday of the last 2 months with a girl for who you developped a textbook case of oneitis, you haven't got laid and it seems that if you do eventually get laid it s gonna be on her terms, meaning you have no power in this relationship.

my advice to you: first figure what you want from this girl. second, do whatever it takes to achieve your goal without having the fear of loosing her. women admire men who can put it all on the line, not wussies who satisfy their every need.

one last tip: if you re looking for a ltr, make sure you fvck her first and she is the one bringing up this issue. If you do it the other way around, you ll loose power over your relationship
 

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drak_ool said:
that s hilarious... i heard a pvssy make some weird noises while being penetrated but i guess i wasn't paying enough attention when it was getting wet

some more serious thoughts: you ve spent everyday of the last 2 months with a girl for who you developped a textbook case of oneitis, you haven't got laid and it seems that if you do eventually get laid it s gonna be on her terms, meaning you have no power in this relationship.

my advice to you: first figure what you want from this girl. second, do whatever it takes to achieve your goal without having the fear of loosing her. women admire men who can put it all on the line, not wussies who satisfy their every need.

one last tip: if you re looking for a ltr, make sure you fvck her first and she is the one bringing up this issue. If you do it the other way around, you ll loose power over your relationship
She has said on multiple occasions "you wanna **** me dont you" and im like uhhh ya haha, and 5 mins later im grabbing her boobs and making out with her....I just need to step it up and make the ho say no.
 
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