"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KingAaron

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Hello everyone, Iv read the dj bible and since have been out and about playing the feild. Progress is coming slow.. but im also slowly putting myself out there.. I have just gotten out of a relationship so im really not too hell bent on diving in yet.. but im still chatting up lots of girls and seeing what is working and whats failing...

So im at a party with this girl.. and im doing pretty bad i would say... were sitting next to each other and im a little tense and not to much convo going on but i was tyring to get something going. So towards the end of the night she asks me am i going home alone.. but she said this to me after she had invited this dude over her house.. Who was only 17 and was very skilled with girls.. dude had me beat since the beggining. So i said ya im going home to my place after... Then i said a stupid line like "ya but dont worry ill be able to get anygirl on the way home" and the girl replies "umm i dont think so".. shocked i was like "why do you say that?" and she says.. because your ugly... .... This stopped me dead in my tracks and ****ing stabbed me like a dagger in the sack. I felt totally like **** for a second there.. and then she goes " did that hurt?" and instantly i reply " actually no it didnt" and i made a gesture with my head as to be looking down on her. I also did this on instict man.. and BINGO :rockon: Chicks whole attitude changed... she grabbed my chair and pulled me closer to her and the whole vibe changed up. Now i was like worthy of this ***** or something.. so i just brushed her off and took the exp. for what it was worth and left.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bonafide

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Lol I would of laughed it off and said..."Why do you talk to yourself like that?" cuz u couldnt have been talking to me, do you nee glasses? do u see this face?


lmao j/p
 

KingAaron

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Nah i took it as a tottaly offensive. Here am trying my best (lol) to get in this chicks pants and she totaly puts me down. But then she put me in a mind state that was like **** this ***** and what she thinks.. heres your helping! It made me realize how seriously i took girls opinions and how much of a big deal i made about talking to girls seem less serious. She totaly said im ugly.. aka you are nothing to me.. then i reversed it and made her umm like me more i guess because i didnt let her put me down.

So thats a big key man.. just roll with the punches and take it where you want it to go.
 

Desert Fox

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dude tell her she is ugly but the dudes don't tell it to her face because they don't want to hurt her feelings. pick on some thing small like say "hey your nose is kinda crooked here. looks like a litle bone bump or something. damn you should get that fixed. and your boobs are kinda uneven too...i wonder if the guys all talk about your lopsided tits after banging your slutty ass haha."

calling you ugly is low bro. after that the gloves are off!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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