"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KingAaron

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Hello everyone, Iv read the dj bible and since have been out and about playing the feild. Progress is coming slow.. but im also slowly putting myself out there.. I have just gotten out of a relationship so im really not too hell bent on diving in yet.. but im still chatting up lots of girls and seeing what is working and whats failing...

So im at a party with this girl.. and im doing pretty bad i would say... were sitting next to each other and im a little tense and not to much convo going on but i was tyring to get something going. So towards the end of the night she asks me am i going home alone.. but she said this to me after she had invited this dude over her house.. Who was only 17 and was very skilled with girls.. dude had me beat since the beggining. So i said ya im going home to my place after... Then i said a stupid line like "ya but dont worry ill be able to get anygirl on the way home" and the girl replies "umm i dont think so".. shocked i was like "why do you say that?" and she says.. because your ugly... .... This stopped me dead in my tracks and ****ing stabbed me like a dagger in the sack. I felt totally like **** for a second there.. and then she goes " did that hurt?" and instantly i reply " actually no it didnt" and i made a gesture with my head as to be looking down on her. I also did this on instict man.. and BINGO :rockon: Chicks whole attitude changed... she grabbed my chair and pulled me closer to her and the whole vibe changed up. Now i was like worthy of this ***** or something.. so i just brushed her off and took the exp. for what it was worth and left.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bonafide

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Lol I would of laughed it off and said..."Why do you talk to yourself like that?" cuz u couldnt have been talking to me, do you nee glasses? do u see this face?


lmao j/p
 

KingAaron

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Nah i took it as a tottaly offensive. Here am trying my best (lol) to get in this chicks pants and she totaly puts me down. But then she put me in a mind state that was like **** this ***** and what she thinks.. heres your helping! It made me realize how seriously i took girls opinions and how much of a big deal i made about talking to girls seem less serious. She totaly said im ugly.. aka you are nothing to me.. then i reversed it and made her umm like me more i guess because i didnt let her put me down.

So thats a big key man.. just roll with the punches and take it where you want it to go.
 

Desert Fox

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dude tell her she is ugly but the dudes don't tell it to her face because they don't want to hurt her feelings. pick on some thing small like say "hey your nose is kinda crooked here. looks like a litle bone bump or something. damn you should get that fixed. and your boobs are kinda uneven too...i wonder if the guys all talk about your lopsided tits after banging your slutty ass haha."

calling you ugly is low bro. after that the gloves are off!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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