Take this quiz and find out if you're an AFC. If you can identify with even one of these situations you're probably an AFC:
I keep making dates with her even though she's stood me up at least once.
I've gone out with her on more than one occasion that I considered a date without stating clearly that I had asked her on a date.
I've gone on more than 2 dates with her and haven't kissed her yet.
I've spent more than $100 on her (gifts, dinner, movies, lending her money for whatever reason, etc) and we haven't had any sort of sexual contact (kissing doesn't count, nor does cuddling).
I fantasize about her breaking up with her boyfriend in order to go out with me.
I tell myself (and others) that her boyfriend is no good for her and that she deserves someone better.
She's been unable to go out with me when I've called to make plans with her, and she hasn't offered an alternate date.
I spend a lot of time thinking up extravagant dates to show her how cool, interesting, worthwhile, nice, romantic, or whatever I am.
She's reacted coldly to a kiss or other casual physical contact at least once (this includes giving you the cheek when you lean in to kiss her goodnight).
She's told you that she's waiting for something particular in order to break up with her current boyfriend but that she won't cheat on him before then.
You've been certain that something you've planned for her (a date, a gift, a really off-the-wall surprise, etc) is going to win her over.
She blew up at me and I convinced myself she just "needed some space."
She has been rude or disrespectful to me in some way and I haven't called her on it because I understand that she is a free spirit.
I have been playing email/telephone tag with her. I know she has a busy schedule.
I have written a lengthy email to her to show how much I value her personality.
She consistently interrupts me or ignores me in favor of her friends, but I understand: her friends are important to her too.
I have done her favors that she has not reciprocated in any way. I have a good heart.
I have tried to convince her that I really like her for her mind.
I take orders from her or change my mind just to please her.
I spend more time talking to her on instant messengers than I do talking to her in real life
I spend more time talking to her on instant messengers than anyone else
I have known her and hung out with her for several months and haven't done anything remotely sexual with her but want to
I often end up with "blue balls" after encountering her
She will undress in front of you and not think anything of it and say things like "Ah, sometimes I forget you're a guy! teehee!"
You have asked her to help you find a girlfriend and she replies with "I really don't know any girls "
You somehow end up doing all the inviting and she never reciprocates
She breaks away from hugs quickly
You spend any time more than a few minutes talking to her on instant messengers.
You go out of my way to do things for her.
You get sweaty and remember you didn't put on any deodorant around her.
You trip over myself and act like a tard around her.
She puts on make-up in front of you (as opposed to putting it on *for* you before she sees you).
