"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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You know "bad boys" have the best attitude in regards to women.

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teacha said:
seriously, you don't see a problem with julius opinions?!
Maybe you have some feud going on with Julius that I'm not aware of. I'm just responding to his post in this thread. I wouldn't go so far as he did as to say a bad boy necessarily leads a useless and meaningless existence. But a lot of them do seem to have problems managing their lives. The most typical bad boy that I know off the top of my head recently lost his job for failing a drug test, for example. Flounting societal conventions is not always to your advantage.

You seem kind of sensitive about this subject. Do you consider yourself a bad boy?

you do realise most people's definition of a man is different to yours right? To each his own.
I don't think I was defining what a man is. I was just pointing out that the term is bad "boy", not bad "man", so that seems to suggest immaturity by definition.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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zekko said:
Maybe you have some feud going on with Julius that I'm not aware of. I'm just responding to his post in this thread. I wouldn't go so far as he did as to say a bad boy necessarily leads a useless and meaningless existence. But a lot of them do seem to have problems managing their lives. The most typical bad boy that I know off the top of my head recently lost his job for failing a drug test, for example. Flounting societal conventions is not always to your advantage.

You seem kind of sensitive about this subject. Do you consider yourself a bad boy?


I don't think I was defining what a man is. I was just pointing out that the term is bad "boy", not bad "man", so that seems to suggest immaturity by definition.[/QUOTE]

I agree with this part right here.

Too many people associate the badboy personality with being bad people. Sure there are badboys that are generally bad people but not all of them are. I emit bad boy tendencies. I have a tattoo, earring, fight, drink, smoke, been arrested, suspended, expelled, bad grades, short tempered, and don't have too many friends that can put up with my attitude. You name it.

But i never disrespect people, I never pick on the weak, I am respectful and courteous, generous, I will admit my faults when wrong, etc.

But i have a rule, you disrespect me the first time i warn you. If it gets to a second time, well i warned you already the first time. I have no problem voicing my opinion if i believe im right or being treated unfairly by my teachers, boss, or anyone. Which coincides with if i'm ever wrong, i will humble accept that consequences as well.

I am not a bad person, but i will stand up for myself.
 

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AAAgent said:
Sure there are badboys that are generally bad people but not all of them are.
Certainly no one is perfect. I imagine most of us have, or at least have had, some bad boy tendency or other.
 

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I think it's important to only take that particular aspect from the bad boys. If you're a decent guy and you start acting like a d!ck to everyone, you're going to drive people away and look like a fool.

However, you can be a decent guy, but be more assertive and straight talking with women, and that goes a long way!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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