"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You know "bad boys" have the best attitude in regards to women.

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teacha said:
seriously, you don't see a problem with julius opinions?!
Maybe you have some feud going on with Julius that I'm not aware of. I'm just responding to his post in this thread. I wouldn't go so far as he did as to say a bad boy necessarily leads a useless and meaningless existence. But a lot of them do seem to have problems managing their lives. The most typical bad boy that I know off the top of my head recently lost his job for failing a drug test, for example. Flounting societal conventions is not always to your advantage.

You seem kind of sensitive about this subject. Do you consider yourself a bad boy?

you do realise most people's definition of a man is different to yours right? To each his own.
I don't think I was defining what a man is. I was just pointing out that the term is bad "boy", not bad "man", so that seems to suggest immaturity by definition.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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zekko said:
Maybe you have some feud going on with Julius that I'm not aware of. I'm just responding to his post in this thread. I wouldn't go so far as he did as to say a bad boy necessarily leads a useless and meaningless existence. But a lot of them do seem to have problems managing their lives. The most typical bad boy that I know off the top of my head recently lost his job for failing a drug test, for example. Flounting societal conventions is not always to your advantage.

You seem kind of sensitive about this subject. Do you consider yourself a bad boy?


I don't think I was defining what a man is. I was just pointing out that the term is bad "boy", not bad "man", so that seems to suggest immaturity by definition.[/QUOTE]

I agree with this part right here.

Too many people associate the badboy personality with being bad people. Sure there are badboys that are generally bad people but not all of them are. I emit bad boy tendencies. I have a tattoo, earring, fight, drink, smoke, been arrested, suspended, expelled, bad grades, short tempered, and don't have too many friends that can put up with my attitude. You name it.

But i never disrespect people, I never pick on the weak, I am respectful and courteous, generous, I will admit my faults when wrong, etc.

But i have a rule, you disrespect me the first time i warn you. If it gets to a second time, well i warned you already the first time. I have no problem voicing my opinion if i believe im right or being treated unfairly by my teachers, boss, or anyone. Which coincides with if i'm ever wrong, i will humble accept that consequences as well.

I am not a bad person, but i will stand up for myself.
 

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AAAgent said:
Sure there are badboys that are generally bad people but not all of them are.
Certainly no one is perfect. I imagine most of us have, or at least have had, some bad boy tendency or other.
 

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I think it's important to only take that particular aspect from the bad boys. If you're a decent guy and you start acting like a d!ck to everyone, you're going to drive people away and look like a fool.

However, you can be a decent guy, but be more assertive and straight talking with women, and that goes a long way!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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