"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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You Just Want to Get it In

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Don Juan
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So I've been doing well and some feedback I get from girls that end up not ****ing me is, "You just want to get it in" or "I know what you're after"...typically I just try to ignore it and move on. These girls bring it back up, like sex is the only thing I'm after. Its weird because the main two who have said this ended up not fvcking me and I felt like I went out of my way before hand to show they were special. I allowed them to open up to me and have more personal conversations and they came to the conclusion I was all about sex?

What's the best way to handle this, if a girl either thinks you are a player or only in it for the sex?

Let's face it, its rare I find a hot girl who has much to offer besides her looks and puss
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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seethehoop

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How did you go out of ya way to make them feel special? It may be they saw this as you trying to manipulate them in to bed. Buying flowers etc before she deserves them sends the wrong signals.
 

Love's Orphan

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I say yes. No point in lying. Hasnt gotten me laid with those but lying wont get me either.
 
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