You Just Want to Get it In

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So I've been doing well and some feedback I get from girls that end up not ****ing me is, "You just want to get it in" or "I know what you're after"...typically I just try to ignore it and move on. These girls bring it back up, like sex is the only thing I'm after. Its weird because the main two who have said this ended up not fvcking me and I felt like I went out of my way before hand to show they were special. I allowed them to open up to me and have more personal conversations and they came to the conclusion I was all about sex?

What's the best way to handle this, if a girl either thinks you are a player or only in it for the sex?

Let's face it, its rare I find a hot girl who has much to offer besides her looks and puss

 

[seethehoop]

How did you go out of ya way to make them feel special? It may be they saw this as you trying to manipulate them in to bed. Buying flowers etc before she deserves them sends the wrong signals.

 

[Love's Orphan]

I say yes. No point in lying. Hasnt gotten me laid with those but lying wont get me either.

 

[ALPHA27]

Wait until after you're married.