diditall4thenookie
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I'm a 37 year old Master DJ. Ask away! free GOOD (TIME TESTED, REAL WORLD ADVICE)!:yes: :rock:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She's not interested mate. Move on. Seriously one rejection means no, 2 rejections mean HELL NO.genao said:Well, I could use some help.
There is this hb8 who looks like she likes talking to me but she never is the one to starts the conversation. And I simply cannot take the conversations to another level. I asked her out twice, and in the first one she couldn't go, the second one she said she didn't knew me that well for us to date.
I'm starting to get bored but I think she's different (possibly because she never had a guy) so I would like to close her
Any comments?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
AgreedYogurtSlinger said:I often find that people that toot their own horncheer: ) aren't as great as they think they are.
Just sayin...
**** it who cares...proceed. Do you want to look back 5-10 years from now and think damn why didn't I try to do this or that?juancarlosmhz said:Ok, so im 18 years old and just graduated from HS, During the weekend i met a 26 year old girl who is a profecional. We talked for a while(she doesnt know my age yet) the conversation went well and after a while I had to leave, she asked me for my number and gave it to her and then I asked for her´s aswell. She seemed interested. So should i proceed or not? and if so what advice could you give me on treating-dating older women
thanks
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Just sit down next the one you want, look her in the eyes, and ask her if she want's to see where the horse bit ya. She'll either start talkin, or shut up for good and you can move on to the next table.MrP said:Well I've been getting bolder with this whole thing and girls have even started opening me.,but I've been trying to figure out how to randomly interrupt a set and get something going. (Like sitting down at a lunch table full of girls). Any ideas?
diditall4thenookie said:Genao, if you even have to hesitate or wonder IF she likes you she doesn't. A girl will give YOU all the signals/clues you need if she wants you to ask her out.
After the first crash and burn you should have walked away/ignored her.
Best way to attract women is to have one or two hot babe FRIENDS.
Girls will then start to compete against the other babes for your attention.Always keep them guessing and laughing.
Do not ever "try too hard". Girls sense that from a mile away.
p.s. Women off all ages are really just LITTLE GIRLS in a curvy body.They truly never grow up. 95% emotion and 5% logic.Play on those emotions and she will be yours.
Women do not make SENSE, so stop analyzing! They act on feelings and attraction all the time.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Gears of Led Zep said:I was gonna make a thread for this but I thought it would be kind of a waste. Basically i have a question about this idea for a kiss close
What I want to do, is tell this girl--whom I've been gamin--that I want to show her an amazing magic trick. (and really this trick blew my mind when my friend did it on me) Then just tell her if I do it right, she has to give me a kiss
so yea good idea or bad?