"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You HS young'in's -ask me anything!

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I'm a 37 year old Master DJ. Ask away! free GOOD (TIME TESTED, REAL WORLD ADVICE)!:yes: :rock:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I often find that people that toot their own horn :)cheer: ) aren't as great as they think they are.


Just sayin...
 

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Well, I could use some help.

There is this hb8 who looks like she likes talking to me but she never is the one to starts the conversation. And I simply cannot take the conversations to another level. I asked her out twice, and in the first one she couldn't go, the second one she said she didn't knew me that well for us to date.

I'm starting to get bored but I think she's different (possibly because she never had a guy) so I would like to close her :p

Any comments?
 

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genao said:
Well, I could use some help.

There is this hb8 who looks like she likes talking to me but she never is the one to starts the conversation. And I simply cannot take the conversations to another level. I asked her out twice, and in the first one she couldn't go, the second one she said she didn't knew me that well for us to date.

I'm starting to get bored but I think she's different (possibly because she never had a guy) so I would like to close her :p

Any comments?
She's not interested mate. Move on. Seriously one rejection means no, 2 rejections mean HELL NO.

Oh and she has had a guy. Probably several.
 

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Well, CaptainJ, I'm sure she never had a boy in her life because I have sources which confirm me of that (and by coincidence we've been on the same school since kids I think). Besides that, she is very shy and not popular, she has only some friends. I only noticed her because we had P.E. at the same time xD

The first "rejection" is understandable because she's a scout and at saturdays she has to go to the scouts. The second one I don't know.

Another one nexted...I'm running out of girls to improve my skills xD
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok, so im 18 years old and just graduated from HS, During the weekend i met a 26 year old girl who is a profecional. We talked for a while(she doesnt know my age yet) the conversation went well and after a while I had to leave, she asked me for my number and gave it to her and then I asked for her´s aswell. She seemed interested. So should i proceed or not? and if so what advice could you give me on treating-dating older women
thanks
 

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YogurtSlinger said:
I often find that people that toot their own horn :)cheer: ) aren't as great as they think they are.


Just sayin...
Agreed
 
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Genao, if you even have to hesitate or wonder IF she likes you she doesn't. A girl will give YOU all the signals/clues you need if she wants you to ask her out.

After the first crash and burn you should have walked away/ignored her.

Best way to attract women is to have one or two hot babe FRIENDS.

Girls will then start to compete against the other babes for your attention.Always keep them guessing and laughing.

Do not ever "try too hard". Girls sense that from a mile away.

p.s. Women off all ages are really just LITTLE GIRLS in a curvy body.They truly never grow up. 95% emotion and 5% logic.Play on those emotions and she will be yours.

Women do not make SENSE, so stop analyzing! They act on feelings and attraction all the time.
 

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juancarlosmhz said:
Ok, so im 18 years old and just graduated from HS, During the weekend i met a 26 year old girl who is a profecional. We talked for a while(she doesnt know my age yet) the conversation went well and after a while I had to leave, she asked me for my number and gave it to her and then I asked for her´s aswell. She seemed interested. So should i proceed or not? and if so what advice could you give me on treating-dating older women
thanks
**** it who cares...proceed. Do you want to look back 5-10 years from now and think damn why didn't I try to do this or that?

I'm sure she knows you're really young and it seems to not have bothered her considering you guys exchanged numbers. Play it off, act mature, but not mediocre and at the same time show her you're all about loving life and having fun. You should act as if she's lucky to be around you. If she's hot though you'll have some tough competition with her being 26. So don't take it personal if you can't get something going.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MrP said:
Well I've been getting bolder with this whole thing and girls have even started opening me.;) ,but I've been trying to figure out how to randomly interrupt a set and get something going. (Like sitting down at a lunch table full of girls). Any ideas?
Just sit down next the one you want, look her in the eyes, and ask her if she want's to see where the horse bit ya. She'll either start talkin, or shut up for good and you can move on to the next table.
 

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diditall4thenookie said:
Genao, if you even have to hesitate or wonder IF she likes you she doesn't. A girl will give YOU all the signals/clues you need if she wants you to ask her out.

After the first crash and burn you should have walked away/ignored her.

Best way to attract women is to have one or two hot babe FRIENDS.

Girls will then start to compete against the other babes for your attention.Always keep them guessing and laughing.

Do not ever "try too hard". Girls sense that from a mile away.

p.s. Women off all ages are really just LITTLE GIRLS in a curvy body.They truly never grow up. 95% emotion and 5% logic.Play on those emotions and she will be yours.

Women do not make SENSE, so stop analyzing! They act on feelings and attraction all the time.

But I DO HAVE hot babe friends as well as all the other look/social stuff.

The problem is my inner skills (conversation, sedution,etc), because i'm a 7/8 and should have no problem. I read many stuff and STILL can't have a hb. I wasn't born with the ladies gift :trouble:
 
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I was gonna make a thread for this but I thought it would be kind of a waste. Basically i have a question about this idea for a kiss close

What I want to do, is tell this girl--whom I've been gamin--that I want to show her an amazing magic trick. (and really this trick blew my mind when my friend did it on me) Then just tell her if I do it right, she has to give me a kiss


so yea good idea or bad?
 

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Me and this girl have been really close for a while, like 3 months. People kind of consider us together. We hang out a fair amount but we still haven't even kissed. Shes never gotten with anyone before and I think she feels like I'm really experienced or something. How do I close this ****?
 

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Hey man nice to see you making this thread,i actually need a bit of advice

My friend and i approach a lot and we have a good time and stuff but havent really gotten much success until last night.LOTS of girls were into us i even spanked the hottest girl in the party however i am struggling to pull the trigger to escalate kino and either kiss close Or even number close i dont know whats holding me back

Any advice?
Thanks :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Gears of Led Zep said:
I was gonna make a thread for this but I thought it would be kind of a waste. Basically i have a question about this idea for a kiss close

What I want to do, is tell this girl--whom I've been gamin--that I want to show her an amazing magic trick. (and really this trick blew my mind when my friend did it on me) Then just tell her if I do it right, she has to give me a kiss


so yea good idea or bad?

bad.
 
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