"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You have to be a borderline Sociopath to get respect from modern women

foreverAFC

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when i think of a badboy i think of an out of shape wigger wearing a sports jersey and a backwards baseball cap and shtty tattoos, that fake lame style seems to be a hit with a lot of fake lame ladies who have been tricked into believing a guy like the type i just described is somehow tough of cool
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sorry to necro a relatively "old" thread but honestly this thread is kind of a junk show. I notice a lot of the things people are saying are just the same misogynistic circle jerk band wagon things we've all heard before by pseudo arm chair forum psychologists trying to console their fellow man whose dignity was surely snatched away from him. Basically: lots of emotion, not a lot of reason. I definitely find women to be a gender hardly worth spending time and energy on. But perhaps for more logical and facts based reasons. A lot of what I just read 6 pages back either has a very gross misinterpretation of what sociopathy actually is and what it involves(really, does anyone in this thread understand what it is), and people clinging on to ideals loosely based around gender roles that are stuck in the ages of cave men or are more relatable to purely animals found in the wild than they are to a species that has free will, consciousness, and the ability to transcend very, VERY primitive instinctive natures
 

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one guy said this powerful quote, and it makes sense about the roles of men and women in life, he said:

"Because it is what we were born to do. Sorry that is life. Women bear the kids, we(Men) are the laborers of life and creators of civilizations."
 
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