"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You Have It easy

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Now, im sorry you may have been misled by the title, no it is not some awe inspiring inspirational post.

I figure that most of you who frequent these forums are American and this is the style that most of the tips are written for. Which is why i think we need an outside America forum. Anyway I digress.

Warning: This is a generalisation and like all generalisations is flawed but . . .

I met some beautiful American girls on the tube today. Now it was a sunny day in England so the short skirts were out in force and it was lunchtime so so were all the pretty English girls. However, i was blown away when i got to Leicester Square.

This group of about 10 Americans got on the tube, near where i was and some of the girls came and stood around me (i was leaning near the door). The girls were all so beautiful, they were tanned, white skin, flawless complexion, nicely shaped and all were different not carbon Essex wh0re copies of each other.

Know i started to speak to them, thinking i was going to get blown away as thats what tends to happen in impersonal settings like the train, buses and the tube. Half the people in the carriage stared at me as if i was nuts.

But these girls were so friendly and nice, i talked to them for about five minutes and i picked up ultra good vibes from two of them. Then i had to get off as i was on the way to visit a University and i was already running late for my appointment.

So in summmary YOU GUYS HAVE IT EASY,

the girls are beautiful (like the weather in most places), approachable and funny. Just go and speak to them, as sure as hell they are less frigid than the British.

I want to live in America. :(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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They were probably so friendly because they were in a different country than their own and you are different to them just as they are to you. Flawless complexion? Maybe. Depends on their age.... I know a few girls who have bad acne problems but I never noticed until I saw them without make-up. They're not all beautiful. We've got our share of ug's just like any other country.
 

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Bull$hit!

I also don't live In America, but I live in a place worse then the UK. In a country that has been free only 13 years and was a part of the former Soviet Union. And who's complaining?

But people on vacations are always more relaxed. They came to England to have fun and to have hot European sex ;) That's the reason you could chat them up so easily.
 

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Oh come on, there's plenty of ugly/unapproachable girls here in America. We are the most obese country in the world, remember?
 

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it was written slightly tongue in cheek, nevermind, i was just struck by the contrast. Most British girls are nigh on unapproachable on public transport but these Americans were easy to talk to. Most the girls i have been on holiday with are slightly wary of strangers. I guess thats being brought up in a big cosmopolitan city does to you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by JSH
Most British girls are nigh on unapproachable on public transport but these Americans were easy to talk to.
Ever been on the subway in New York City? If you try to talk to someone they look like they want to kill you or run away.
 

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JSH, agreed. He made a generalisation and quite a true one... The "game" in the UK is a lot more difficult than in the US. People in the US are also a lot more friendly. Ask that to almost anyone thats been over there thats brittish and you'll find that they all agree.

Hell, I've seen so many programs where american guys have come out with "we didnt pull one chick last night, they're a lot more stubborn and more of a challenge over here" so many times I dont think I can count that high.

Either way, if you doubt it, come over to the UK and see how you do ;)
 

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Hmmm. I think it is just that when people go to visit foreign places, they lower their b!tchiness. Cuz they are out to have a good time, on a vacation relaxing and so on. I've seen English people here and they are mostly friendly too.
 
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