"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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trent81

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About three and a half weeks ago I hung out with this girl and went to coffee with her. I never heard from her again. But she told me why I may not hear from her during the meeting, she told me she's in the process of breaking up with her boyfriend. I am trying to grow up now and am staying away from rebound girls. So I said thanks for the hour of disappointment and "I'll see you on the other side". I deleted her number and went home and later to the gym. So three and a half weeks later I get the following text message conversation;

The following is an exact transcribed conversation. All names have been changed to protect the innocent.

Stupidgirl; Hey you! What are you up to?
Tray: Who the Fuvk is this?
Stupidgirl: It's *beep*, did you delete my number? What the hell?
Tray: Oh hey *beep*, yeah, I deleted your number cause I didn't think I would hear from you and I usually don't hang on to numbers of girls that are not interested in me. But it's good to hear from you. What's up?
Stupid: I see, just wanted to say hello, wanted to see if you wanted to go do something sometime.
Tray: Hmmmm.....Well, I would love to. But I'm out of town (I wasn't). I come back next Tuesday, but am meeting up with *beep*, I promised her I would take her out, how about Thursday at 7 pm?
Stupidgirl: Oh so, you have a girlfriend?
Tray: If I had a girlfriend, I wouldn't have answered your text. I have a date.
Stupidgirl: Okay, Thursday's good. Call me so we can meet up.
Tray: Okay, Thursday then, but you should call me, I usually forget these things, you may be having drinks on your own cause I may forget. Call me to remind me.
Stupidgirl: I will, see you soon!!!!! xoxxoxoxo


Let's see what happens next Thursday......It's been so long I forgot what she looks like, but this bitcvh thinks she can just call and get me up anytime she wants. FUVK HER. I have survived 32 winters, and this is not my first rodeo. I am tired of bitcvhes who think they can do whatever the fuk they want.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tray: Oh hey *beep*, yeah, I deleted your number cause I didn't think I would hear from you and I usually don't hang on to numbers of girls that are not interested in me. But it's good to hear from you. What's up?

are you kidding? why would you type that? it reeks of insecurity. there's no need to explain so much. when i read your replies, i could feel that your are very revengeful.
 
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I wouldn't have bothered texting back if I was you mate. You've presented her with a safety net, the safety net being you. She can disappear for weeks at a time and she now knows you will respond to her advances and arrange to see her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Very very strange text conversation. You're angry at this girl because she didnt want to date you. Dont be a whiny loser.

First of all why did you reply with 'who the **** is this?'. What the hell, made me laugh.

Oh hey *beep*, yeah, I deleted your number cause I didn't think I would hear from you and I usually don't hang on to numbers of girls that are not interested in me. But it's good to hear from you. What's up?
This sounded quite weak and sissy ish, like you were trying to make her feel guilty for not being interested in you. Came across insecure as already said. Not wasting your time on girls who arent interested in you is a principle you should show by your actions, not verbalize. It loses its meaning and sounds insecure when you do.

If you want to make her feel bad, save your time and say '**** you'.

Hmmmm.....Well, I would love to. But I'm out of town (I wasn't). I come back next Tuesday, but am meeting up with *beep*, I promised her I would take her out, how about Thursday at 7 pm?
Going into so much detail was strange and awkward dont you think? If you wanted to make yourself hard to get and preselected then why didnt you just say 'i have a date' at the most. Saying 'i have plans' is good enough to raise question marks. Again, you're trying to get back at this girl cos you think she wronged you.

Okay, Thursday then, but you should call me, I usually forget these things, you may be having drinks on your own cause I may forget. Call me to remind me.
Again, weird. Why say this lol. Its like your trying to make a point about how little you care about her very openly in a serious manner. Its like ****y funny without funny, like ****y *******.
 

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Yep, I agree with pretty much everythign written above!

Reeks of insecurity..too much over-explanation to display higher value, but it just comes across as weak and lame!

I will be interested to see what happens, and whether you guys do end up meeting up etc
 

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you really wanna be a díck? i have a feeling she might call you on thursday. tell her you want to meet at XXXXXX at XXXX time. Then just dont go and stand her up, and ignore all phone calls hahahaha
 
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pua1989 said:
you really wanna be a díck? i have a feeling she might call you on thursday. tell her you want to meet at XXXXXX at XXXX time. Then just dont go and stand her up, and ignore all phone calls hahahaha
I like this idea.

I would make her travel several miles away, to add further salt to the embarrassing wound.
 

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I have a feeling that trent's still curious about how things would work out with this girl, deep inside. If that's the case, don't be nasty and stand her up or stuff like that. Despite the mistakes you've made in that text conversation with her, just give the stupid girl one last chance. If she shows up, well, you'll know what to do this time. The ball is already in your court. You're the prize now.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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