"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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YOU guys SUCK major balls!

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Title is misleading title.

So I recently decided to experiment with POF. Kinda like what Desdinova did with his girlfriend. I made one of a hot chick with a 10 body, I hadn't even finished the profile and already had 5 messages from these beta AFC's. I even had one guy reply bac again saying sorry for having such a sh!tty pick up line.

I think the average PUA who plays WoW has a better advantage and a leg over the average dude outside of the community, because seriously, these guys are terrible. No wonder girls are so picky and quick to reject. I'm really amazed at some of the crap I'm reading.

I don't care what anybody says here, if you're in the community, whether you STILL suck with women, novice, intimediate or expert Pick-Up-Artist, you have a LEG-OVER most non-community men.

I would definetly suggest Pick Up with a well-rounded initiative of your own game with online game. Half of these dudes have put the same title with the same messages, all seeking the approval of a chick.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LOL.

I wonder if I can make a few quick bucks from these losers. I'm replying to one guy who has an awesome jacket, I'm gonna ask him where he got it from. So this is not all counter-productive. Lols were had.
 

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Yeah, haha, I made one, used lipsum text(fake text, not even real words, looks latin) and just a very generic somewhat blurry pic of a chick in a beanie, not even a 10, probably a 6 and I got several messages right away. MOst not even special.

I think online dating is a waste, PUA or not. Its easier to meet women in person in my opinion.
 

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Borknagar said:
Yeah, haha, I made one, used lipsum text(fake text, not even real words, looks latin) and just a very generic somewhat blurry pic of a chick in a beanie, not even a 10, probably a 6 and I got several messages right away. MOst not even special.

I think online dating is a waste, PUA or not. Its easier to meet women in person in my opinion.
I agree to an extent. I should just wipe off all the text in the 'About Me' section. Seriously though, the average PUA follower using routines is a notch above these typical betas. Online dating is all good if you use it right, I've got like 50% of my lays from various websites, do I prefer to meet women in real life? Most definetely.
 

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Yeah me too, but it's much more entertaining meeting women in person, online, not so much. PLus POF is flooded with single mothers and women with borderline personality disorder, or something else, not my cup of tea.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thought about making a profile on OkCupid to check out the competition and source some information.

This is a great idea.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
Thought about making a profile on OkCupid to check out the competition and source some information.

This is a great idea.
Yes, worth doing for a look.

I set one up once to see what happened.

Did a google search for "cute girl" to get a pic, set up a profile with the picture and basically nothing else and watched the e-mails roll in.

Worth doing once to see:

* What any attractive women on online dating is subjected to
* How to differentiate yourself from the rest of the crowd.

Personally, I don't waste time sending e-mails online mostly and generally wait for girls to contact me. Then their interest is probably higher.

Reactivated my POF profile a few days ago and within a day, had 2 messages from girls and after a bit of chat got their numbers (this excludes other chaff who didn't meet my standards).

Can't do anything with them atm because I'm away visiting family in another place until next week...
 

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Borknagar said:
Yeah me too, but it's much more entertaining meeting women in person, online, not so much. PLus POF is flooded with single mothers and women with borderline personality disorder, or something else, not my cup of tea.
Maybe some kind of test needs to be run?

I like to use things like:

"So do you know who this Sarah Pailin chick is? I see her on the news alot." Or "I heard that this major event happened recently, have you heard anything about it?" If they know, chances are I'm dealing with a person who's well informed.

Or

"So I was watching this movie (something a little more artsy and deep, but fairly popular). What do you think about that movie?" Chances are, the person I'm talking to is a little more cultured and has a better taste in movies than most.

I'm sure there is some kind of giveaway for BPD chicks and single moms.
 

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HA! I tried it as well, in 15 minutes got 10 messages, including one guy inviting me to a new year eve party. Man those messages are sad
 
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