"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You guys rock!

BasicInstinct

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Just got back from a date and wanted to let everyone know that it went great! I used all your tips and was confident, witty and ****y, not the AFC I used to be. She just emailed me saying she had a great time and gave me her number. Thanks for all your help!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Take No Dirt

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Originally posted by BasicInstinct:
Just got back from a date and wanted to let everyone know that it went great! I used all your tips and was confident, witty and ****y, not the AFC I used to be. She just emailed me saying she had a great time and gave me her number. Thanks for all your help!
Great to hear of your success! The credit really belongs to you. You had the determination to change your ways to something that has been proven to work.
 

trickynick

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Great to hear your success story! I anxiously await more from you and others.
 

Don Phenom

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That's great man, but remember you're just starting, now you've got to keep it up. Don't worry, you'll make some mistakes but don't let it stop you. You're on you're way to becoming a Don, be happy.

Keep ya nose clean
Finito

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Don Phenom- DP, My motto is simple "I will not lose", and if I do, I'll go through you to get where I need to be. "Challenge me at your own risk"
 

Nightwing

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Originally posted by BasicInstinct:
Just got back from a date and wanted to let everyone know that it went great! I used all your tips and was confident, witty and ****y, not the AFC I used to be. She just emailed me saying she had a great time and gave me her number. Thanks for all your help!
Glad to hear it
!!!!!! Keep on visiting the site and dont let nothing block your path to self improvment!!!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Taz

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Originally posted by Nightwing:
Glad to hear it
!!!!!! Keep on visiting the site and dont let nothing block your path to self improvment!!!!!
Yes, it's very important to keep visiting this site and improving yourself. Don't get ****y and think you're the "Ultimate Don". (I know you don't, but this is what happened to me)
Got my heart broken and after neglecting my skills for 4 months, I am now relearnig and reapplying myself as a DJ.
 

Bonhomme

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Good show, man! Keep on doing!
 
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