"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BasicInstinct

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Just got back from a date and wanted to let everyone know that it went great! I used all your tips and was confident, witty and ****y, not the AFC I used to be. She just emailed me saying she had a great time and gave me her number. Thanks for all your help!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Take No Dirt

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Originally posted by BasicInstinct:
Just got back from a date and wanted to let everyone know that it went great! I used all your tips and was confident, witty and ****y, not the AFC I used to be. She just emailed me saying she had a great time and gave me her number. Thanks for all your help!
Great to hear of your success! The credit really belongs to you. You had the determination to change your ways to something that has been proven to work.
 

trickynick

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Great to hear your success story! I anxiously await more from you and others.
 

Don Phenom

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That's great man, but remember you're just starting, now you've got to keep it up. Don't worry, you'll make some mistakes but don't let it stop you. You're on you're way to becoming a Don, be happy.

Keep ya nose clean
Finito

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Don Phenom- DP, My motto is simple "I will not lose", and if I do, I'll go through you to get where I need to be. "Challenge me at your own risk"
 

Nightwing

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Originally posted by BasicInstinct:
Just got back from a date and wanted to let everyone know that it went great! I used all your tips and was confident, witty and ****y, not the AFC I used to be. She just emailed me saying she had a great time and gave me her number. Thanks for all your help!
Glad to hear it
!!!!!! Keep on visiting the site and dont let nothing block your path to self improvment!!!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Taz

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Originally posted by Nightwing:
Glad to hear it
!!!!!! Keep on visiting the site and dont let nothing block your path to self improvment!!!!!
Yes, it's very important to keep visiting this site and improving yourself. Don't get ****y and think you're the "Ultimate Don". (I know you don't, but this is what happened to me)
Got my heart broken and after neglecting my skills for 4 months, I am now relearnig and reapplying myself as a DJ.
 

Bonhomme

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Good show, man! Keep on doing!
 
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