"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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you guys are dumb

Accension

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I hope you're a troll because for someone so 'smart' you can barely speak legible English.
However, for arguements sake, I'll assume your intelligence is refering to your alleged success to women.

In which case, let me be the first to tell you, your ideas aren't unique in the slightest and you're more or less on a huge power trip because you're no longer the loser and therefore vent your frustrations of your past self on to Sosuave (which proves you aren't the genius you claim).

Long story short: Shut-the-fuc>-up.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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He's a troll. He's just doing his job. Our job is to ignore him. And most of the time we succeed. This time, we are failing.
 

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I'd say this is a pretty good troll. He's got all you guys all up in arms
 

PRMoon

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Troll or not this kind of thing makes me ill. Some guys come to this site because they're in a bad place. They hope upon hope that some one here can help them socialize better and give them a shot at companionship. Whether it's a troll or an individual with legitimate skill posting something like this where they claim to have the answer to their problem but they "aren't worthy", it's very un-classy. This place doesn't need more bullies. People with little skills should be here to learn and people with lots of skills should be here to teach, not berate. If you're anything else your part of the problem, end of story.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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