"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJDamage

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Saw some chick posted this on facebook, it might have been the most sickening thing I saw someone I know post:

Whatever you give a woman, she will make Greater... If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby. If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her. So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of s**t."
Needless to say she got many thumbs ups and praises from other women with a few males doing the same.

I don't know why it bothers me, I suppose it has to do with me being more aware of the constant bombardment of bullsh1t sugar coated messages that society keeps feeding us and making some of us believe. It seems to me that behind these type of women’ empowerment’ messages there is an ugly hidden agenda that most people are not aware of. That agenda is meant to devalue and shame masculinity in order to destroy it and thus gain power over men.

There is too much female praise and not enough male praise in this world.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A great reply I saw to this was "so if I give her bread, will she make me a sandwich?"
 

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facebook is poisonous, Alphas get chewed up alive by the girls, girls friends and AFC's, best to fall back and read and laugh
 

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Give her a credit card and she'll,...ah nevermind.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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samspade said:
why do they need to show T&A to get people to watch?
The simple fact is that women's real power over men lies in their sexuality. Those who just aint sexy enough to use their T&A to get what they want will whinge, moan and write stupid facebook posts :rolleyes:
 

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You can have a field day C&F negging that FB post.
 

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Jitterbug said:
You can have a field day C&F negging that FB post.

Lol, I cant wait for it to pop up, both barrels!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Give her a credit card and she'll,...ah nevermind.
Well she already has the slot to slide in through :)
 

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Best thing I ever did with facebook was to remove my wall from it. Now its so much better and less stressfull. And I use it less, yet, I have it for any important private message if you know what I mean.
 

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caporal said:
Best thing I ever did with facebook was to remove my wall from it. Now its so much better and less stressfull. And I use it less, yet, I have it for any important private message if you know what I mean.
The best thing I did was to CLOSE it down.
 

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What's the problem with the post?
Puts the woman in the place many here think she belongs: making a house a home, having children, being a loving wife and mother.
I didn't see anything about "give me a laboratory and I'll cure a disease" or "give me some steel and I'll build you a bridge"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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this is another example of the self-deluding nature of women's sexuality. i believe they take these positions, and on a subconcious level identify with them, because they're hard wired to celebrate their gender-specific, culturally identified victories - even when they have nothing to show for it. they need to satisfy the social/collective bargaining aspects of their identity, if not by leading it then by marching proudly in step. finding a girl who is mature enough to transcend that collective nonsense is hard, but worth it because she can stand on her own.
 
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