Black Casanova
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try to get right into thing/? how?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
you + girl are alone in her room. chill for a bit or
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Let it happen naturally..
Don't come off as gitty, or in a hurry to do anything
I used to do this alot..
Its best just to start with slight kino..
A convienent reaching across the couch to grab something(gently scraping her breast .. thats my fav) see how she reacts when you your elbow "accidently" touches her boob..
A classic arm around the shoulder (If she responds by laying her head on you your in there like swim wear baby)
But don't just start palming tits or vagina grabbing off top
Don't come off as gitty, or in a hurry to do anything
I used to do this alot..
Its best just to start with slight kino..
A convienent reaching across the couch to grab something(gently scraping her breast .. thats my fav) see how she reacts when you your elbow "accidently" touches her boob..
A classic arm around the shoulder (If she responds by laying her head on you your in there like swim wear baby)
But don't just start palming tits or vagina grabbing off top
Middleagedbadboy
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Take it slow, chill and act the world's best communicator and listener. I did this with some 24 year old chick a while back. Met for the first time, wasn't long before I had her sucking my 44 year old d!ck:rockon:
Someone Much cooler
Senior Don Juan
If she has you alone in her room, what do you think she wants to do. if she wanted to chill she would have your ass in the family room, your in her personal space, so get up in her personal space. I would go wit kino-or how every you spell that stupid word, move on to kissin, from the it shud b natural.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Funny that you should mention that. Thats what my current girlfriend did to me and the one girl that I made out with a couple times did.500_W00P said:A classic arm around the shoulder (If she responds by laying her head on you your in there like swim wear baby)
This other girl, whom is my dance partner, did it to me, or at least tried. She is pretty and I would have had sex with her by now if I did not have a girlfriend (which I don't plan on leaving for a while so its a no go).
comic_relief
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
exactlySomeone Much cooler said:If she has you alone in her room, what do you think she wants to do. if she wanted to chill she would have your ass in the family room, your in her personal space, so get up in her personal space. I would go wit kino-or how every you spell that stupid word, move on to kissin, from the it shud b natural.
comic_relief