Black Casanova
Don Juan
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try to get right into thing/? how?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
you + girl are alone in her room. chill for a bit or
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Let it happen naturally..
Don't come off as gitty, or in a hurry to do anything
I used to do this alot..
Its best just to start with slight kino..
A convienent reaching across the couch to grab something(gently scraping her breast .. thats my fav) see how she reacts when you your elbow "accidently" touches her boob..
A classic arm around the shoulder (If she responds by laying her head on you your in there like swim wear baby)
But don't just start palming tits or vagina grabbing off top
Don't come off as gitty, or in a hurry to do anything
I used to do this alot..
Its best just to start with slight kino..
A convienent reaching across the couch to grab something(gently scraping her breast .. thats my fav) see how she reacts when you your elbow "accidently" touches her boob..
A classic arm around the shoulder (If she responds by laying her head on you your in there like swim wear baby)
But don't just start palming tits or vagina grabbing off top
Middleagedbadboy
New Member
Take it slow, chill and act the world's best communicator and listener. I did this with some 24 year old chick a while back. Met for the first time, wasn't long before I had her sucking my 44 year old d!ck:rockon:
Someone Much cooler
Senior Don Juan
If she has you alone in her room, what do you think she wants to do. if she wanted to chill she would have your ass in the family room, your in her personal space, so get up in her personal space. I would go wit kino-or how every you spell that stupid word, move on to kissin, from the it shud b natural.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Funny that you should mention that. Thats what my current girlfriend did to me and the one girl that I made out with a couple times did.500_W00P said:A classic arm around the shoulder (If she responds by laying her head on you your in there like swim wear baby)
This other girl, whom is my dance partner, did it to me, or at least tried. She is pretty and I would have had sex with her by now if I did not have a girlfriend (which I don't plan on leaving for a while so its a no go).
comic_relief
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
exactlySomeone Much cooler said:If she has you alone in her room, what do you think she wants to do. if she wanted to chill she would have your ass in the family room, your in her personal space, so get up in her personal space. I would go wit kino-or how every you spell that stupid word, move on to kissin, from the it shud b natural.
comic_relief