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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You Don't always have to go out on dates?

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From what I'm reading here, it seems that many guys here "take women out on dates" to get laid..

But, it doesn't always have to be this way yes? You can just get a chick's number, call her up a week later and go watch a movie at her place and go straight to sex.. yes?

Please share your experiences and thoughts
 

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I'm seeing that not too many guys have their own place. Is this your case since you suggested just heading over to her place? Plus, not a lot of guys know how to do many things at home outside of playing video games, watching movies and having sex. Just doing those things they tend to get into major ruts. This is why the prevailing opinion is to go out and do something entertaining.
 

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Ya dam skippy on that one. Those are the "night girls" and they handy for m' dandy:crazy:

In fact, they like to get their girlfriends and do bedbreakers:woo: . I likes that!

But, if you got a hot 10 and want some real flavor with a steady woman, don't make her a hoe too quick:crackup:

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Dapper said:
Ya dam skippy on that one. Those are the "night girls" and they handy for m' dandy:crazy:

In fact, they like to get their girlfriends and do bedbreakers:woo: . I likes that!

But, if you got a hot 10 and want some real flavor with a steady woman, don't make her a hoe too quick:crackup:

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If you gets no respect, you gives no respect :rockon:

Your post made sense except for this little bit right here...

Dapper said:
Ya dam skippy on that one. Those are the "night girls" and they handy for m' dandy:crazy:

In fact, they like to get their girlfriends and do bedbreakers:woo: . I likes that!

But, if you got a hot 10 and want some real flavor with a steady woman, don't make her a hoe too quick:crackup:

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If you gets no respect, you gives no respect :rockon:
Oh, I seem to have posted the whole thing...
 

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Fortunate_Juan said:
Your post made sense except for this little bit right here...
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

I'm still looking for a Universal Translator.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It might take a day or two. Think about it. Hell, no body wants a all day all night lady let's get the freek in the bed :crackup:

Let me know if you need further explanation. I'll be more than obliged to give it to you :crackup:

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Fortunate_Juan said:
Your post made sense except for this little bit right here...
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

I'm still looking for a Universal Translator.

Universal translator... lol!

Its actually quite simple to understand this guy in 3 easy steps.

1) Find a crochet hook and or ice pick

2) Insert said implement in brain

3) Type at a computer.


Dapper... not one pentagenarian I know talks like you. You are either a liar about your age, some one who is pretending to be "hip" by using those terms, or just some troll. None of those probable situations give me the impression that you give good advice.
 

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Fortunate_Juan said:
Universal translator... lol!

Its actually quite simple to understand this guy in 3 easy steps.

1) Find a crochet hook and or ice pick

2) Insert said implement in brain

3) Type at a computer.


Dapper... not one pentagenarian I know talks like you. You are either a liar about your age, some one who is pretending to be "hip" by using those terms, or just some troll. None of those probable situations give me the impression that you give good advice.
Hey, it worked!!! Check it out!
http://www.rinkworks.com/dialect/dialectp.cgi?dialect=jive&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.sosuave.net%2Fforum%2Fshowthread.php%3Fp%3D1080206%23post1080206

Click it and hit the DIALECTIZE! button. :p
 

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Dapper said:
It might take a day or two. Think about it. Hell, no body wants a all day all night lady let's get the freek in the bed :crackup:

Let me know if you need further explanation. I'll be more than obliged to give it to you :crackup:

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So, referring back to my question, what you are trying to say is that
we need to go OUT ON A Couple of dates?

And calling her up to go "watch a movie" at her place and go straight into sex without going out is impossible?



Here is my background with this chick (read it if you have time, other than that, you don't have to)

I did work with her before in the grocery store. She quit 6 months ago and is now a firefighter. We had rapport and kino.I did hit on her back then, she kinda rejected it... weeks later, she hit on me and I ignored it... We were chasing each other.

I just ran into her just yesterday, chatted for a bit.

Me: so,do you still live with your crazy girlfriend roomates?
HB: No, my mom and my brother live with me in my apartment right now.. bla bla bla
ME: So you don't talk to any of them anymore?
HB: I don't, bla bla ba
HB: My mom is going through a divorce right now, and she is moving out soon. I'll have 2 rooms all to myself.

So, I asked for her number.. but didn't have anything to write with. So, she took my number instead and said she'll give me her number by calling my cellphone.

She called my number but didnt leave any message because as usual, my voicemail inbox is full. She she texted me her number instead.
 

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verysuave said:
So, referring back to my question, what you are trying to say is that
we need to go OUT ON A Couple of dates?

And calling her up to go "watch a movie" at her place and go straight into sex without going out is impossible?



Here is my background with this chick (read it if you have time, other than that, you don't have to)

I did work with her before in the grocery store. She quit 6 months ago and is now a firefighter. We had rapport and kino.I did hit on her back then, she kinda rejected it... weeks later, she hit on me and I ignored it... We were chasing each other.

I just ran into her just yesterday, chatted for a bit.

Me: so,do you still live with your crazy girlfriend roomates?
HB: No, my mom and my brother live with me in my apartment right now.. bla bla bla
ME: So you don't talk to any of them anymore?
HB: I don't, bla bla ba
HB: My mom is going through a divorce right now, and she is moving out soon. I'll have 2 rooms all to myself.

So, I asked for her number.. but didn't have anything to write with. So, she took my number instead and said she'll give me her number by calling my cellphone.

She called my number but didnt leave any message because as usual, my voicemail inbox is full. She she texted me her number instead.
I think sexing her will be harder to do with her family in the house than if she had friends. Haha, then again, I have gotten a hand job in front of my ex GF's parents under a blanket... I dunno. It is of course possible to sex this chick but you may have a better chance when her mom moves out.

So to answer your question, yes you can probably get her in bed without going to the movies, if you play your cards right.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Man, take her out - get to know her. That's how you slowly build a r e l a t i o n s h i p. That don't mean you don't try for it. But, jus don't try too hard. Plus, the more you go out, the more you gots to talk about.

:nono: Uh, to the haters - hate on :moon:

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Dapper said:
:nono: Uh, to the haters - hate on :moon:
LOL. OK DAWG. Lissen man I'm sorry we gots off on the wrong foot. We needs ta cruise by da senior center and ice a few punk ass bytches. Then we can mug some of those geezers at da social security office. After dat lets crack some fo'ties and smoke a fattie J, but we gotta do dis befo' 6 pm cuz dats mah bed time.
 

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Man, you welcome to do whatever turns you on. I'm not here to impress you. I'm here to impress me :nono:

Uh, I know you gots more to say. But, I'm signin off. Have a good night "gentlemen":D

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I personally hate the word "date", its kind of old fashioned, but yes you should go out. It should be spontaneous though like, "c'mon lets go to xyz pub and have a couple drinks. Order some appetizers, make some jokes, shoot a game of pool or something and have a couple drinks. Real "dates" that you sit down to dinner or whatever should be saved for a bit down the road. Thats my opinion...
 

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st_99 said:
I personally hate the word "date", its kind of old fashioned, but yes you should go out. It should be spontaneous though like, "c'mon lets go to xyz pub and have a couple drinks. Order some appetizers, make some jokes, shoot a game of pool or something and have a couple drinks. Real "dates" that you sit down to dinner or whatever should be saved for a bit down the road. Thats my opinion...
I see your point.. She is 19, anyplace for someone that age? She cant go in bars.. Yes, we should prolly go somewhere fun
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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