"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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You Don't always have to go out on dates?

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From what I'm reading here, it seems that many guys here "take women out on dates" to get laid..

But, it doesn't always have to be this way yes? You can just get a chick's number, call her up a week later and go watch a movie at her place and go straight to sex.. yes?

Please share your experiences and thoughts
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm seeing that not too many guys have their own place. Is this your case since you suggested just heading over to her place? Plus, not a lot of guys know how to do many things at home outside of playing video games, watching movies and having sex. Just doing those things they tend to get into major ruts. This is why the prevailing opinion is to go out and do something entertaining.
 

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Ya dam skippy on that one. Those are the "night girls" and they handy for m' dandy:crazy:

In fact, they like to get their girlfriends and do bedbreakers:woo: . I likes that!

But, if you got a hot 10 and want some real flavor with a steady woman, don't make her a hoe too quick:crackup:

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Dapper said:
Ya dam skippy on that one. Those are the "night girls" and they handy for m' dandy:crazy:

In fact, they like to get their girlfriends and do bedbreakers:woo: . I likes that!

But, if you got a hot 10 and want some real flavor with a steady woman, don't make her a hoe too quick:crackup:

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If you gets no respect, you gives no respect :rockon:

Your post made sense except for this little bit right here...

Dapper said:
Ya dam skippy on that one. Those are the "night girls" and they handy for m' dandy:crazy:

In fact, they like to get their girlfriends and do bedbreakers:woo: . I likes that!

But, if you got a hot 10 and want some real flavor with a steady woman, don't make her a hoe too quick:crackup:

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If you gets no respect, you gives no respect :rockon:
Oh, I seem to have posted the whole thing...
 

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Fortunate_Juan said:
Your post made sense except for this little bit right here...
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

I'm still looking for a Universal Translator.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It might take a day or two. Think about it. Hell, no body wants a all day all night lady let's get the freek in the bed :crackup:

Let me know if you need further explanation. I'll be more than obliged to give it to you :crackup:

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Fortunate_Juan said:
Your post made sense except for this little bit right here...
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

I'm still looking for a Universal Translator.

Universal translator... lol!

Its actually quite simple to understand this guy in 3 easy steps.

1) Find a crochet hook and or ice pick

2) Insert said implement in brain

3) Type at a computer.


Dapper... not one pentagenarian I know talks like you. You are either a liar about your age, some one who is pretending to be "hip" by using those terms, or just some troll. None of those probable situations give me the impression that you give good advice.
 

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Fortunate_Juan said:
Universal translator... lol!

Its actually quite simple to understand this guy in 3 easy steps.

1) Find a crochet hook and or ice pick

2) Insert said implement in brain

3) Type at a computer.


Dapper... not one pentagenarian I know talks like you. You are either a liar about your age, some one who is pretending to be "hip" by using those terms, or just some troll. None of those probable situations give me the impression that you give good advice.
Hey, it worked!!! Check it out!
http://www.rinkworks.com/dialect/dialectp.cgi?dialect=jive&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.sosuave.net%2Fforum%2Fshowthread.php%3Fp%3D1080206%23post1080206

Click it and hit the DIALECTIZE! button. :p
 

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Dapper said:
It might take a day or two. Think about it. Hell, no body wants a all day all night lady let's get the freek in the bed :crackup:

Let me know if you need further explanation. I'll be more than obliged to give it to you :crackup:

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So, referring back to my question, what you are trying to say is that
we need to go OUT ON A Couple of dates?

And calling her up to go "watch a movie" at her place and go straight into sex without going out is impossible?



Here is my background with this chick (read it if you have time, other than that, you don't have to)

I did work with her before in the grocery store. She quit 6 months ago and is now a firefighter. We had rapport and kino.I did hit on her back then, she kinda rejected it... weeks later, she hit on me and I ignored it... We were chasing each other.

I just ran into her just yesterday, chatted for a bit.

Me: so,do you still live with your crazy girlfriend roomates?
HB: No, my mom and my brother live with me in my apartment right now.. bla bla bla
ME: So you don't talk to any of them anymore?
HB: I don't, bla bla ba
HB: My mom is going through a divorce right now, and she is moving out soon. I'll have 2 rooms all to myself.

So, I asked for her number.. but didn't have anything to write with. So, she took my number instead and said she'll give me her number by calling my cellphone.

She called my number but didnt leave any message because as usual, my voicemail inbox is full. She she texted me her number instead.
 

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verysuave said:
So, referring back to my question, what you are trying to say is that
we need to go OUT ON A Couple of dates?

And calling her up to go "watch a movie" at her place and go straight into sex without going out is impossible?



Here is my background with this chick (read it if you have time, other than that, you don't have to)

I did work with her before in the grocery store. She quit 6 months ago and is now a firefighter. We had rapport and kino.I did hit on her back then, she kinda rejected it... weeks later, she hit on me and I ignored it... We were chasing each other.

I just ran into her just yesterday, chatted for a bit.

Me: so,do you still live with your crazy girlfriend roomates?
HB: No, my mom and my brother live with me in my apartment right now.. bla bla bla
ME: So you don't talk to any of them anymore?
HB: I don't, bla bla ba
HB: My mom is going through a divorce right now, and she is moving out soon. I'll have 2 rooms all to myself.

So, I asked for her number.. but didn't have anything to write with. So, she took my number instead and said she'll give me her number by calling my cellphone.

She called my number but didnt leave any message because as usual, my voicemail inbox is full. She she texted me her number instead.
I think sexing her will be harder to do with her family in the house than if she had friends. Haha, then again, I have gotten a hand job in front of my ex GF's parents under a blanket... I dunno. It is of course possible to sex this chick but you may have a better chance when her mom moves out.

So to answer your question, yes you can probably get her in bed without going to the movies, if you play your cards right.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Man, take her out - get to know her. That's how you slowly build a r e l a t i o n s h i p. That don't mean you don't try for it. But, jus don't try too hard. Plus, the more you go out, the more you gots to talk about.

:nono: Uh, to the haters - hate on :moon:

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Dapper said:
:nono: Uh, to the haters - hate on :moon:
LOL. OK DAWG. Lissen man I'm sorry we gots off on the wrong foot. We needs ta cruise by da senior center and ice a few punk ass bytches. Then we can mug some of those geezers at da social security office. After dat lets crack some fo'ties and smoke a fattie J, but we gotta do dis befo' 6 pm cuz dats mah bed time.
 

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Man, you welcome to do whatever turns you on. I'm not here to impress you. I'm here to impress me :nono:

Uh, I know you gots more to say. But, I'm signin off. Have a good night "gentlemen":D

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I personally hate the word "date", its kind of old fashioned, but yes you should go out. It should be spontaneous though like, "c'mon lets go to xyz pub and have a couple drinks. Order some appetizers, make some jokes, shoot a game of pool or something and have a couple drinks. Real "dates" that you sit down to dinner or whatever should be saved for a bit down the road. Thats my opinion...
 

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st_99 said:
I personally hate the word "date", its kind of old fashioned, but yes you should go out. It should be spontaneous though like, "c'mon lets go to xyz pub and have a couple drinks. Order some appetizers, make some jokes, shoot a game of pool or something and have a couple drinks. Real "dates" that you sit down to dinner or whatever should be saved for a bit down the road. Thats my opinion...
I see your point.. She is 19, anyplace for someone that age? She cant go in bars.. Yes, we should prolly go somewhere fun
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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