"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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After going and visting the Don Juan Discussion Forum, I noticed something. A lot of you guys just don't get it!

PvssyEater was claiming that the reason girls are attracted to guys is simply by being SEXUAL (show sexuality.)

Now let me clear this up.

Girls ARE attracted to guys that show sexuality, yes very true. You NEED to be sexual. By not being feminine, by being a man. Showing that yes, I want you because I AM A MAN. By having a sexual state of mind. But by JUST being sexual? NO!

Are girls attracted to pervs? NO!

You see you place standards on girls, but you won't be able to get THOSE girls if you don't have these standards on yourself. You need to be working on yourself if you want the top-notch girls.

C&F, KINO, CHARM, and all the other DJ principles work but along with being sexual.

Being a DJ is not a copy of techniques or copying someone else's personality.

YOU FORM your own self-image by taking in these techniques and forming who you want to be.

A summary...
*PLACE THE SAME STANDARDS ON YOURSELF THAT YOU DON ON WOMEN

*FORM YOUR OWN SELF-IMAGE OF WHO YOU WANT TO BE

*BE SEXUAL ALONG WITH YOUR SELF-IMAGE

*YOU CHOOSE YOUR DESTINY, AND NO ONE ELSE SHOULD BE DOING THAT FOR YOU, IF YOU'RE NOT HAPPY YOU'RE TO BLAME



now stop complaining!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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see this is the thing that is wrong with posts that advise being sexual...you never truly elaborate on the topic or idea of being sexual. For example, you say to be sexual..cool, thats black and everything but sexual to joe means telling girls jokes about anal sex and basically talking about sex too much...to ross it means jacking off a lot, and staring at susie ann's breasts as if it were playboy tv. to james it means approaching the desired female and when he thinks he's talked to her long enough he's gonna actually grab her breasts without any anticipation or desire from the female to do so...

so, if you could please go into full detail about being sexual. and also a question..has being sexual gotten you a lot of p*ssy or are you just saying and posting this because you saw it in another forgotten post and you want to look smart,,,?
 

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
see this is the thing that is wrong with posts that advise being sexual...you never truly elaborate on the topic or idea of being sexual. For example, you say to be sexual..cool, thats black and everything but sexual to joe means telling girls jokes about anal sex and basically talking about sex too much...to ross it means jacking off a lot, and staring at susie ann's breasts as if it were playboy tv. to james it means approaching the desired female and when he thinks he's talked to her long enough he's gonna actually grab her breasts without any anticipation or desire from the female to do so...

so, if you could please go into full detail about being sexual. and also a question..has being sexual gotten you a lot of p*ssy or are you just saying and posting this because you saw it in another forgotten post and you want to look smart,,,?
I see what you're saying, I just didn't think I needed to elaborate. I want to look smart you say? That's kind of immature, I'm not into that. Anyways, yes being sexual DOES get you *****. And yes, I do act sexual and it works. But that's not what my post was about, it was about bringing all these DJ ideas into one thing combined with how you want to be---the product you...

I would explain sexuality to you, but Gunwitch knows a lot more than me so just go check that out. It's an interesting read, and I know a lot of new people havn't probably read it.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=46286&highlight=Gunwitch+Method

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=47078

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=67183


haha soniq_red, I don't really care if I'm in the bible or not. I wrote this because people seem to be missing these points and because of the thread in the dj discussion.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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bump.
 

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in my last thread some guy told me to go back to my old ways, in search of what they were my best idea was to search my old threads. I liked this one. Even my old threads were from when the forum was in a more golden age, i still like it.
 

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i like radiating sex with confidence...a kind of led zeppelin thing. double entendres and shiit while not being ******d about it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dannowillbookem said:
i like radiating sex with confidence...a kind of led zeppelin thing. double entendres and shiit while not being ******d about it.
hahah
 
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