"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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After going and visting the Don Juan Discussion Forum, I noticed something. A lot of you guys just don't get it!

PvssyEater was claiming that the reason girls are attracted to guys is simply by being SEXUAL (show sexuality.)

Now let me clear this up.

Girls ARE attracted to guys that show sexuality, yes very true. You NEED to be sexual. By not being feminine, by being a man. Showing that yes, I want you because I AM A MAN. By having a sexual state of mind. But by JUST being sexual? NO!

Are girls attracted to pervs? NO!

You see you place standards on girls, but you won't be able to get THOSE girls if you don't have these standards on yourself. You need to be working on yourself if you want the top-notch girls.

C&F, KINO, CHARM, and all the other DJ principles work but along with being sexual.

Being a DJ is not a copy of techniques or copying someone else's personality.

YOU FORM your own self-image by taking in these techniques and forming who you want to be.

A summary...
*PLACE THE SAME STANDARDS ON YOURSELF THAT YOU DON ON WOMEN

*FORM YOUR OWN SELF-IMAGE OF WHO YOU WANT TO BE

*BE SEXUAL ALONG WITH YOUR SELF-IMAGE

*YOU CHOOSE YOUR DESTINY, AND NO ONE ELSE SHOULD BE DOING THAT FOR YOU, IF YOU'RE NOT HAPPY YOU'RE TO BLAME



now stop complaining!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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see this is the thing that is wrong with posts that advise being sexual...you never truly elaborate on the topic or idea of being sexual. For example, you say to be sexual..cool, thats black and everything but sexual to joe means telling girls jokes about anal sex and basically talking about sex too much...to ross it means jacking off a lot, and staring at susie ann's breasts as if it were playboy tv. to james it means approaching the desired female and when he thinks he's talked to her long enough he's gonna actually grab her breasts without any anticipation or desire from the female to do so...

so, if you could please go into full detail about being sexual. and also a question..has being sexual gotten you a lot of p*ssy or are you just saying and posting this because you saw it in another forgotten post and you want to look smart,,,?
 

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
see this is the thing that is wrong with posts that advise being sexual...you never truly elaborate on the topic or idea of being sexual. For example, you say to be sexual..cool, thats black and everything but sexual to joe means telling girls jokes about anal sex and basically talking about sex too much...to ross it means jacking off a lot, and staring at susie ann's breasts as if it were playboy tv. to james it means approaching the desired female and when he thinks he's talked to her long enough he's gonna actually grab her breasts without any anticipation or desire from the female to do so...

so, if you could please go into full detail about being sexual. and also a question..has being sexual gotten you a lot of p*ssy or are you just saying and posting this because you saw it in another forgotten post and you want to look smart,,,?
I see what you're saying, I just didn't think I needed to elaborate. I want to look smart you say? That's kind of immature, I'm not into that. Anyways, yes being sexual DOES get you *****. And yes, I do act sexual and it works. But that's not what my post was about, it was about bringing all these DJ ideas into one thing combined with how you want to be---the product you...

I would explain sexuality to you, but Gunwitch knows a lot more than me so just go check that out. It's an interesting read, and I know a lot of new people havn't probably read it.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=46286&highlight=Gunwitch+Method

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=47078

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=67183


haha soniq_red, I don't really care if I'm in the bible or not. I wrote this because people seem to be missing these points and because of the thread in the dj discussion.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bump.
 

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in my last thread some guy told me to go back to my old ways, in search of what they were my best idea was to search my old threads. I liked this one. Even my old threads were from when the forum was in a more golden age, i still like it.
 

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i like radiating sex with confidence...a kind of led zeppelin thing. double entendres and shiit while not being ******d about it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dannowillbookem said:
i like radiating sex with confidence...a kind of led zeppelin thing. double entendres and shiit while not being ******d about it.
hahah
 
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