"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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After going and visting the Don Juan Discussion Forum, I noticed something. A lot of you guys just don't get it!

PvssyEater was claiming that the reason girls are attracted to guys is simply by being SEXUAL (show sexuality.)

Now let me clear this up.

Girls ARE attracted to guys that show sexuality, yes very true. You NEED to be sexual. By not being feminine, by being a man. Showing that yes, I want you because I AM A MAN. By having a sexual state of mind. But by JUST being sexual? NO!

Are girls attracted to pervs? NO!

You see you place standards on girls, but you won't be able to get THOSE girls if you don't have these standards on yourself. You need to be working on yourself if you want the top-notch girls.

C&F, KINO, CHARM, and all the other DJ principles work but along with being sexual.

Being a DJ is not a copy of techniques or copying someone else's personality.

YOU FORM your own self-image by taking in these techniques and forming who you want to be.

A summary...
*PLACE THE SAME STANDARDS ON YOURSELF THAT YOU DON ON WOMEN

*FORM YOUR OWN SELF-IMAGE OF WHO YOU WANT TO BE

*BE SEXUAL ALONG WITH YOUR SELF-IMAGE

*YOU CHOOSE YOUR DESTINY, AND NO ONE ELSE SHOULD BE DOING THAT FOR YOU, IF YOU'RE NOT HAPPY YOU'RE TO BLAME



now stop complaining!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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see this is the thing that is wrong with posts that advise being sexual...you never truly elaborate on the topic or idea of being sexual. For example, you say to be sexual..cool, thats black and everything but sexual to joe means telling girls jokes about anal sex and basically talking about sex too much...to ross it means jacking off a lot, and staring at susie ann's breasts as if it were playboy tv. to james it means approaching the desired female and when he thinks he's talked to her long enough he's gonna actually grab her breasts without any anticipation or desire from the female to do so...

so, if you could please go into full detail about being sexual. and also a question..has being sexual gotten you a lot of p*ssy or are you just saying and posting this because you saw it in another forgotten post and you want to look smart,,,?
 

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
see this is the thing that is wrong with posts that advise being sexual...you never truly elaborate on the topic or idea of being sexual. For example, you say to be sexual..cool, thats black and everything but sexual to joe means telling girls jokes about anal sex and basically talking about sex too much...to ross it means jacking off a lot, and staring at susie ann's breasts as if it were playboy tv. to james it means approaching the desired female and when he thinks he's talked to her long enough he's gonna actually grab her breasts without any anticipation or desire from the female to do so...

so, if you could please go into full detail about being sexual. and also a question..has being sexual gotten you a lot of p*ssy or are you just saying and posting this because you saw it in another forgotten post and you want to look smart,,,?
I see what you're saying, I just didn't think I needed to elaborate. I want to look smart you say? That's kind of immature, I'm not into that. Anyways, yes being sexual DOES get you *****. And yes, I do act sexual and it works. But that's not what my post was about, it was about bringing all these DJ ideas into one thing combined with how you want to be---the product you...

I would explain sexuality to you, but Gunwitch knows a lot more than me so just go check that out. It's an interesting read, and I know a lot of new people havn't probably read it.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=46286&highlight=Gunwitch+Method

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=47078

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=67183


haha soniq_red, I don't really care if I'm in the bible or not. I wrote this because people seem to be missing these points and because of the thread in the dj discussion.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bump.
 

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in my last thread some guy told me to go back to my old ways, in search of what they were my best idea was to search my old threads. I liked this one. Even my old threads were from when the forum was in a more golden age, i still like it.
 

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i like radiating sex with confidence...a kind of led zeppelin thing. double entendres and shiit while not being ******d about it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dannowillbookem said:
i like radiating sex with confidence...a kind of led zeppelin thing. double entendres and shiit while not being ******d about it.
hahah
 
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