“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You car doesn't matter, gold diggers are a myth

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They say women aren't really interested in the car a man drives.

Now, not all women are clearly "over the top" like her, but all, and I mean all, will respond positively to a man who drives a car that exudes power, status, or is a luxury item.

Now, if you're wondering whether driving a Fiat 500 or a Mercedes A180 makes a difference, there you have it.
Obviously, none of us can afford a Ferrari or anything else, but I don't understand why people here on earth say that women don't look at a car and immediately understand a man's socioeconomic status.

I know many mature men here have been successful, even if their car was a dumpster, and indeed, there are many differences in this between the US, Europe, and other countries.

For example, in France, a car is truly your calling card, and it's something that women here also strongly associate with a man's personality.

I'd like to know your opinion on why a good, healthy woman wouldn't think that a man in a nice or better car would influence her choice or its market value.

There are many experiments on this, yet why should we men lower our sights?

If investing 50 euros a month to have a better car seems like too much, then consider spending that money on having to **** escorts.

Many men spend even more.
Then you buy a nice car.

Many of you have said that having a beat-up or low-value car would automatically filter Digger every time, but that's not the case. The impact of this is universal and applies equally to all women. To say otherwise seems like rationalization and self-assurance to men.

Also, gold digger its just a woman to exaggeration.
Every woman wants that, but healthier ones tend not to make that at first place.
But every, every woman wants a man having a good car signaling wellbeing

P.S.: This post is an addition for those who have already worked on their inner game and who now, given their financial situation, can afford to pay a small premium that brings so many benefits.

It would be cool if women here could comment on the subject
 
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They say women aren't really interested in the car a man drives.

Now, not all women are clearly "over the top" like her, but all, and I mean all, will respond positively to a man who drives a car that exudes power, status, or is a luxury item.

Now, if you're wondering whether driving a Fiat 500 or a Mercedes A180 makes a difference, there you have it.
Obviously, none of us can afford a Ferrari or anything else, but I don't understand why people here on earth say that women don't look at a car and immediately understand a man's socioeconomic status.

I know many mature men here have been successful, even if their car was a dumpster, and indeed, there are many differences in this between the US, Europe, and other countries.

For example, in France, a car is truly your calling card, and it's something that women here also strongly associate with a man's personality.

I'd like to know your opinion on why a good, healthy woman wouldn't think that a man in a nice or better car would influence her choice or its market value.

There are many experiments on this, yet why should we men lower our sights?

If investing 50 euros a month to have a better car seems like too much, then consider spending that money on having to **** escorts.

Many men spend even more.
Then you buy a nice car.

Many of you have said that having a beat-up or low-value car would automatically filter Digger every time, but that's not the case. The impact of this is universal and applies equally to all women. To say otherwise seems like rationalization and self-assurance to men.

Also, gold digger its just a woman to exaggeration.
Every woman wants that, but healthier ones tend not to make that at first place.
But every, every woman wants a man having a good car signaling wellbeing

P.S.: This post is an addition for those who have already worked on their inner game and who now, given their financial situation, can afford to pay a small premium that brings so many benefits.

It would be cool if women here could comment on the subject
I need to start LamboMaxxing.
 

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A ponch and no legs to fill those hooker boots. I'd schedule a date meeting up at the nicest restaurant in town just to take her car for a spin, then say 'it's nice, but no lambo,' then leave right after.
 

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of course car has an affect, clothes have an affect, being fit has an effect, everything is part of it. to make it more interesting how about car type in the same price range. we think of car vs money. but what about car vs car. sedan vs sports, dual pickup vs suv, min van vs motorcycle. in each category there are similar price ranges available.
 

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If you need a car to get women, you are simply another version of the same simp that takes women out to fancy restaurants on the first date.
Where should a man take a woman on the first date to not be a simp?
 

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All women are really hookers with a heart of gold; but they just need a man to supply the gold.
Then why bother associating with them?
 

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It "matters", in the same way your clothes, haircut, scent, residence, etc etc "matters"...

It allows women to seperate the potential schmucks from the probable champions on sight. Just as traits like weight, language("Is it fairly clean, or foul enough to make the entire Oakland chapter of The Hell's Angels blush?")and a slutty demeanor* allow us to distinguish the probable ONSs/No Gos from the sort of gals likely to be solid LTRs


*Recall Jennifer's Body... Megan Fox's character and public persona spelled "Girl you f-ck, then discard back behind whatever dumpster you found her at. Fun as she might be in bed, she's going to be nothing but a pain in the perineum, the other 23 hours out of the day. And she'll REVEL in behaving like a rabid hyena".


Amanda Seyfried's character and public persona, by contrast, left most observers thinking: "Girl's wife and mother material, hands down. She's beautiful and sexy, without being a skank, seems like she'll be sweet and submissive towards her man. And she doesn't appears like she'll require TRAINING in any of this stuff... She's well-bred, impolitic as that word is these days"

Whether or not those perceptions are true(Fox has insisted that she only had two lovers prior to BAG. Seyfried apparently ran through a few high-profile fellas, before settling down with the no-name who gave her 2.5 babies, and now stays home watching the kids, while she's trotting the globe)is ultimately irrelevant... We all judge one another, based upon the way we look whenever the cameras are rolling
 
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Then why bother associating with them?
Men and women have different strategies, different aims, different natures yet mutually obtain something from the other.

I'm obviously making a pun regarding gold digging and the expression, and mocking the all too common transactional nature of intimacy and relationships.
 

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I'm obviously making a pun regarding gold digging and the expression, and mocking the all too common transactional nature of intimacy and relationships.
I had my first two “girlfriends” when I didn’t have a pot to piss in.

I also had two highly-sexually-charged four-month flings while laid off from work. The women pair for dates.

I am married with kids now and don’t consider my employment to support all this to be “transactional”. Do you or some people?
 

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Just like the “women’s occupation does not matter” thread, the claim that a man’s car does not matter is also wrong. Why would someone neglect a relevant piece of information like a vehicle when judging a man, when it can reveal so much about him?
 

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Women don't care about cars in the way that men do. They like trendy, recognizable cars like Range Rovers; if they saw an Aston Martin DB11 in pristine condition they might not even look twice at it. I have a friend who owned a Lambo SUV for a few years, and 99% of the people who talked or even looked at him were men, I don't think the women even noticed it. They don't care about motorcycles either.

The media has convinced men that women car about cars, which is is a similar myth to the idea that women like bodybuilder types of men, when in fact in both cases it's men who care about these things and men only.

A lot of what women do is for other women and a lot of what men do is for other men, and they project that onto the other gender. Men seem more guilty of this projection than women.
 

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They say women aren't really interested in the car a man drives.
First of all, that video is more fake than Brigitte Macron's lady parts.

Second, you can't compare USA and France. USA is a far wealthier country. There are parts of America where every other car on the road is a BWM, Mercedes, Range Rover, etc. You don't see that in France. In addition, there are lots of cheap used luxury cars on the secondary market. You can buy a 3-4 year old off-lease German luxury car that still looks like it could be a new car but costs a fraction of what it did when it was actually new thanks to the steep depreciation curve. All of this is to say that your run of the mill Audi A4 or Mercedes C-Class is going to be pretty much invisible.
 
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I had my first two “girlfriends” when I didn’t have a pot to piss in.

I also had two highly-sexually-charged four-month flings while laid off from work. The women pair for dates.

I am married with kids now and don’t consider my employment to support all this to be “transactional”. Do you or some people?
Sure, even bums have girlfriends, but that isn’t saying anything about the state of things.

Obviously you know it’s an entirely different dynamic when you’re young; or if you’ve got legit game or the right combo of variables like looks, muscles, money, red pill understanding etc. Most men don’t have game or a red pill understanding and may only be considerable in one category and deficient in the others.

Hence most men feel obligated to attempt to win over a woman by being generous with their money: paying for dates, paying for bills, or much larger financial contributions thinking it will lead to more sex and more reciprocated love. Their blue pill conditioning won’t yield results other than women will happily take advantage never understanding the sacrifices made, and men will lament that they feel taking advantage by the women they spent tons of money on. From my experience it is pretty rare, despite “equality,” that a man doesn’t contribute more financially and otherwise than a woman.
 

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First of all, that video is more fake than Brigitte Macron's lady parts.
Can you confirm the rest on my list:

trannies:
Michael Obama
Diana Carney
Victoria Starmer

gays:
Kier Starmer
Justin Trudeau
“Bath House” Barry Obama

Hitler’s daughter:
Angela Merkel

Crowley’s daughter/son:
Barbara Bush


And did I miss any?
 

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Advice from the old lady:

Cars can matter but only to a point unless the woman in question is either very shallow or comes from a very elite & status conscious background. A car can be a calling card, or it can simply be transportation.

Mine is more a calling card that I really enjoy driving (but I'm someone who notices the Lambo SUVs because I like them and had looked into buying one at one point). Even used they run several hundred thousand & I just couldn't justify that cost... plus I know maintenance is extremely expensive & not sure how well they hold up over time.

My husband drives a paid for Honda. Same car as when I met him (and it was paid for then). I drive a high end car (same one I drove when I met him), and our garage looks a little like Lady & the Tramp, but I wasn't turning him away because his is not fancy; he wasn't pursuing me because mine is....

I'm a car person. My brother in law drag races and I've always liked something both fast & elegant, I go to car shows & auctions because I dig cars & car racing. My husband is more a music person & gets his adrenaline rush in his sport, so a car is transportation with a killer stereo for him.

Its only one piece of the puzzle although it should be congruent with the rest of who you are, your values & priorities. I drive what I drive for me. The start of the engine & sound of the motor puts a smile on my face every time I turn the ignition. Its not to impress anyone. Buying something expensive to impress others is "try hard" in my view.
 

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Similar to GymMaxxing.

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A man maintains his body for HIMSELF, first and foremost. If he's primairly seeking adulation, that'll inevitably short-lived. Example:


Everyone thought Arnie was the pinnacle of pumped up physique back in The 80s, until the mid-late 90s rolled around, fellas like The Rock showed up, and appeared to be specimens of unsurpassable sublimity. Today, they're ALL being eclipsed by gents who make both them look scrawny, even when they were at the peak of their physicality, and at some point in the future, these men will themselves be outdone for a fresh crop
 
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