"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You CANT pursue a relationship. (Bigdave17)

mrgoodstuff

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How things go in 2019 the girls in the market have 4-5 male friends they ask for favors things her man should be doing for her. 1 different guy getting sex consistently and 1-2 other guys occasionally dipping in. She wants a relationship with the guys she spread her legs for but they dont want her.

So if yoi want a shot at a relationship get the SEX early and often. The guy she gives her body to is the one she wants.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Robert28

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How things go in 2019 the girls in the market have 4-5 male friends they ask for favors things her man should be doing for her. 1 different guy getting sex consistently and 1-2 other guys occasionally dipping in. She wants a relationship with the guys she spread her legs for but they dont want her.

So if yoi want a shot at a relationship get the SEX early and often. The guy she gives her body to is the one she wants.
Hell it was that way when I was a teenager in the mid-90’s.lol
 

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Would they do other sexual favors for the others like head ?
Well it’s become much worse with the evolvement of social media. BUT, I was one of those “do favors for a girl while she goes out with and bangs one or 2 dudes regularly”. I was 15 and so much in the friend zone I was the damn mayor. I just know she had a TON of orbiters but was only sleeping with a couple dudes and going out with them.
 

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Dave is so infatuated with himself that his reality is total skewed. I frankly think Dave needs to embrace his gay tendencies and quit cluttering up this forum with his predictable babble.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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