“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You can't have what you want unless you imagine it

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You often hear the phrase "I can't picture myself with that girl." That's where the problem starts, and that's when the chances of you getting that HB start declining. Imagination is an important part for us humans. It's the blueprint to our actions before we execute them. Now what if you can't picture something happening? It's not going to happen, or it is getting to happen, except it's sloppy. People are intimidated around beautiful women because of this. Human beings fear the unknown, what they can't imagine or identify, and when you haven't originally played the scenario through in your head, you won't have a clue of what's going to happen next, and that's why guys' get nervous.

What's funny about most of this pick up stuff is that you simply just have to do it. Don't give her all your attention. Don't nag her with question after question. Look relaxed and comfortable with yourself. Well, now I'm telling you to picture yourself with that HB. Picture Jeri Lee or Jessica Alba sucking up to you, dying for your attention and doing everything to get you to look their way while you simply yawn at their attempts, sitting comfortably on a leather couch, drinking your favorite drink, and praying for a better challenge.

Olympic athletes do a variation of this with the sport they play. They replay situations in their heads in order to improve and perfect performance. What you shouldn't be doing is picturing yourself with that HB having picnics together, getting married, having children, etc. That's the AFC version of this.
 
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Great advice. This kind of thinking will allow to develop the self-esteem needed to confidently approach and close, or to take your rejections with a grain of salt. Because I think a lot of guy approach chicks just for the sake of saying they've approach and talked, when in the back of their minds they were thinking this chick is too good for me. I'm guilty of that myself.
 

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I would have to agree that a lot of nervousness can arise from fear of the unknown. I know this because it happens to me all the time and I still am having trouble defeating it.
 
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