"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You Cant Handle The Truth- You Want To Be Sweet Talked Like Women

NumenMalefic

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CONFIDENCE

That is all you need.

The reason I am here is for the tips some of you post which are great.

then there are those with a hundred threads of

does she like me. *afc* (Talk to her and find out)

she looked at me like so, what does it mean? *afc* (Don't know, talk to her and find out)

i freeze when she walks into the room, what can i do? *afc* (Unfreeze, then talk to her)

Then there are the losers that never leave the computer but write shi_t all over the forums.

there is no easy way to grow up. You either pay up now or later, but you will pay.

wimps.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You're 17, please don't post grandiose ideas in an attempt to get into the DJ Bible
 

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Some good advice about getting it done. I think confidence is way over played, though it is good, it is not the most decidely important factor for getting a girl you like.

Some girls even like the shy-coy types that take forever to ask them out and act AFC around them. Different strokes for different folks. Some girls can see confidence is faked and if you have confidence and are really good-looking, you may come off as arrogant to some. So there is a fine line.

Either she likes you or she don't. If you find yourself having to sell yourself then you are trying to convince her that you are a good catch. You may be, but she has to decide this for herself and being a 'salesmen' will only turn her off. She is either naturally attracted to you or not - if she really likes you, doesn't matter what you really do.

Considering how some nimrods get girls - they're just being themeselves but not putting the girls on a pedestal. They have that take it or leave it attitude which really gets some of the most attractive girls because alot of their value (at least to them) is hinged on their looks.
 

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It would appear we have a poser to the likes of one person acting as two. Nothing like Dec 2005 to make it seem that way.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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