"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You Cant Handle The Truth- You Want To Be Sweet Talked Like Women

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CONFIDENCE

That is all you need.

The reason I am here is for the tips some of you post which are great.

then there are those with a hundred threads of

does she like me. *afc* (Talk to her and find out)

she looked at me like so, what does it mean? *afc* (Don't know, talk to her and find out)

i freeze when she walks into the room, what can i do? *afc* (Unfreeze, then talk to her)

Then there are the losers that never leave the computer but write shi_t all over the forums.

there is no easy way to grow up. You either pay up now or later, but you will pay.

wimps.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You're 17, please don't post grandiose ideas in an attempt to get into the DJ Bible
 
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Some good advice about getting it done. I think confidence is way over played, though it is good, it is not the most decidely important factor for getting a girl you like.

Some girls even like the shy-coy types that take forever to ask them out and act AFC around them. Different strokes for different folks. Some girls can see confidence is faked and if you have confidence and are really good-looking, you may come off as arrogant to some. So there is a fine line.

Either she likes you or she don't. If you find yourself having to sell yourself then you are trying to convince her that you are a good catch. You may be, but she has to decide this for herself and being a 'salesmen' will only turn her off. She is either naturally attracted to you or not - if she really likes you, doesn't matter what you really do.

Considering how some nimrods get girls - they're just being themeselves but not putting the girls on a pedestal. They have that take it or leave it attitude which really gets some of the most attractive girls because alot of their value (at least to them) is hinged on their looks.
 
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It would appear we have a poser to the likes of one person acting as two. Nothing like Dec 2005 to make it seem that way.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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