"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

You can't always get what you want, but...

Die Hard

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2009
Messages
1,772
Reaction score
405
Lots of wisdom in these simple lyrics. When I focus and think about the meaning for a while, I always become at ease and get this "everything's gonna be alright" feeling over me.

We can get caught up in the Game now and then... Trying too hard, wanting it too much, getting frustrated about things, ugly bytches act like quality women, hot women act like spoiled brats, where are the quality ones? Or you just don't have what it takes to catch a quality woman, you realize you need to work on yourself and that requires some real effort which frustrates you etc. etc. etc. Why can't things just go the way you want them to go, why can't you just get what you want?!

Well...

You can't always get what you want
But if you try sometimes you just might find
You get what you need
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Top