here's the deal guys. i used to be a nice guy type. if you filmed me interacting with women i'd probably have all my attention focused on her. id go out of my way to spend my money and time to try and please a woman because i thought thats how stuff worked. i tip-toed around their feelings thinking i might hurt something if i made any wrong moves. if a woman stepped out of line i'd probably instantly forgive her and move on... or if she really stepped out of line i might call her on it but not really seriously and in a way that demanded any respect. also, i used to think that certain things a guy just couldn't get away with. i.e. slapping her ass, making fun of her for her stupid things she does and anything else that annoys you, and calling her on her bull****.
things have changed and i've realized that boy can you get away with MURDER if you really want to.
don't be afriad to push the bounderies and go farther than you used to think was off limits. don't be afriad to put yourself on the line and say how you really feel. believe me when i say it will have the opposite effect of what you fear.
a lot of guys just hold their real feelings in and focus all their attention on a chick and this is discusting. be bold, be real, and if she pisses you off by god tell her about it. if she flakes on you and gives you a lame excuse call her on it. tell her it was a lame excuse and she'll agree with you.
things have changed and i've realized that boy can you get away with MURDER if you really want to.
don't be afriad to push the bounderies and go farther than you used to think was off limits. don't be afriad to put yourself on the line and say how you really feel. believe me when i say it will have the opposite effect of what you fear.
a lot of guys just hold their real feelings in and focus all their attention on a chick and this is discusting. be bold, be real, and if she pisses you off by god tell her about it. if she flakes on you and gives you a lame excuse call her on it. tell her it was a lame excuse and she'll agree with you.