"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You Can Change

VAboi

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I was looking back at some of my old threads. I saw a post that I made when I was in highschool, asking how to stop being afraid to sit next to people at lunch.

How insane is that? I felt so ****ing inferior.
A few great posters gave me a pep talk and tried to help me out. Truth be told, I wasn't able to see the value at first. When you have limiting beliefs, it's hard to see the world in any other way.

Now I've had successes and am so much more confident overall. I'm not perfect, and I don't have to be. It was amazing to see. I actually started crying.

If you have problems, approaching, thinking you aren't are enough, it's all due to fear. Face your fears. Then you will look back and say it was all worth it.

I've changed a **** ton, and I'm still evolving.

I would like to see how other people changed and their views now below.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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