"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You Can Change

VAboi

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I was looking back at some of my old threads. I saw a post that I made when I was in highschool, asking how to stop being afraid to sit next to people at lunch.

How insane is that? I felt so ****ing inferior.
A few great posters gave me a pep talk and tried to help me out. Truth be told, I wasn't able to see the value at first. When you have limiting beliefs, it's hard to see the world in any other way.

Now I've had successes and am so much more confident overall. I'm not perfect, and I don't have to be. It was amazing to see. I actually started crying.

If you have problems, approaching, thinking you aren't are enough, it's all due to fear. Face your fears. Then you will look back and say it was all worth it.

I've changed a **** ton, and I'm still evolving.

I would like to see how other people changed and their views now below.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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