You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
and here i thought you ware coolOriginally posted by Reagan
Sometimes I jerk off... sometimes.
this is ridiculous... do you know what pretty means? do you understand the biology behind attraction? women are competing against eachother - but how do they win the competition? by landing the ALPHA, the best possible candidate for reproduction.Originally posted by tseluca
What about my answer didnt you understand
Girls compete to be pretty because they want to be the prettiest
The same way guys compete physically
Why do guys do that? Because they want to show they are the best
I can see why you guys spend your lives on this forum, you really have no clue
Fantastic answer! It goes right down into pure natural instinct: survival of the fittest.but how do they win the competition? by landing the ALPHA, the best possible candidate for reproduction.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
well then you must be really really hot.Originally posted by tseluca
I ca walk into any bar at any given night and leave what whatever man I choose, he doesn't have to say a word.
If I wanted to I could walk up to some guy take him by the hand and say come on 10 times out of 10 he will follow me, no questions asked
Yes, I choose who I date
she is eather a; troll, wh*re, or webcam sl*t.Originally posted by Logen
well then you must be really really hot.
yea i agree, her argument is rubbish.Originally posted by spider_007
i have yat to see something intaligent come out of her
which are?Originally posted by Reagan
Actually, I got her opinion via email and I have to say, it's identical to my views.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You have no ****ing idea *****, most guys workout for themselves so they feel good mentally and physically - SELF IMPROVEMENTOriginally posted by tseluca
Guys spend endless hours in the gym trying to look good enough to get women
Guys spend endless hours on the web trying to learn tricks to pick up women
Guys spend valuable time working overtime to try and get money to pick up women
What do they do when they get that money. Spend it on a woman or on things to try and impress one
You men need to come back to earth
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I'm not even going to read the replies, because I have one of my own--and it may already be here, but what the hell:Originally posted by tseluca
but lets remember the reason each and everyone of you is here is to pick me up. Maybe not me personally, but women.
You come on here and bash us, talk bad about us, say we don't know what we want,
But you spend an awful lot of time and effort trying to figure out how to pick us up.
I mean really think about it. Look at the number of posts and the number of members her. This whole site. Dedicated to picking up a woman like me who has no idea what she wants.
Funny if you ask me
and how much time do women take to get ready for a single date. maybe not endless, but enough to make men wait--and men don't like to wait--at least I don't.Originally posted by tseluca
Guys spend endless hours in the gym trying to look good enough to get women
Guys spend endless hours on the web trying to learn tricks to pick up women
Guys spend valuable time working overtime to try and get money to pick up women
What do they do when they get that money. Spend it on a woman or on things to try and impress one
You men need to come back to earth
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.