"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
you can bash me all you want
- Thread starter tseluca
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
and here i thought you ware cool
dipset_mafia
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this is ridiculous... do you know what pretty means? do you understand the biology behind attraction? women are competing against eachother - but how do they win the competition? by landing the ALPHA, the best possible candidate for reproduction.
WOMEN & ATTRACTION. babies have large eyes, disproportionate to the size of their heads - look at super models, and the make-up isle... men find larger eyes attractive because it resembles a baby - something that triggers our protectional instincts... anyways, curvy figure is good for child bearing etc etc..
what i'm getting at is..
"competition" is natural selection.
and it IS MOST DEFINETELY directed at the opposite sex!!!
pro athletes are lean strong people - they demonstrate this through their competition - some come out on top. demonstrating that they're suitable to protect and healthy
women will wear make-up to accentuate their eyes to trigger protectional instincts in men, they'll wear form fitting clothing to show their female form, one that is good for child bearing.. notice the less attractive women will attempt to COVER UP these imperfections, hiding them, for them, hopefully guys won't notice. . . . . women will dress themselves to attract, to the degree that they feel necessary...... COMPETITION between women is merely to catch the eye of the ALPHA, ... ALTHOUGH IT IS COMPETITION BETWEEN THE WOMEN, THE PURPOSE IS NOT JUST TO BE THE "PRETTIEST" BUT TO LAND THE "BEST MAN" POSSIBLE.
whether you like it or not, birdy.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
she is eather a; troll, wh*re, or webcam sl*t.
if you ask me; she is a fat slob who poses as other people so she can escape the reality of a fat slob.
i have yat to see something intaligent come out of her
dipset_mafia
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which are?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
it's ignorant people like her that think learning seduction is all about exploiting and hating women.
if anything, it has taught me to respect women a lot more.she should seriously read up on some material before she draws conclusions on things she has obviously no idea about.
I and my fellow members here would gladly educate her all about the techniques we try to learn in order to become more successful with women and become more social creators in general.
You have no ****ing idea *****, most guys workout for themselves so they feel good mentally and physically - SELF IMPROVEMENT
Who cares if a guy spends a few hours on the net learning how to pick up a girl, any problem with it?
You must have dated alot of average guys if they've spent money on you; sure. it's fine to pay for small stuff but yea, I think you need to go back to noclue.com where you came from
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Then they forget that they will then be flamed to death. Which in turn causes 6 page guy on girl flame wars.
I just think this is so funny. All you people who argue with her are just feeding the fire you wish to douse.
Personally I think that 'Hate' should be removed from our lives so that we can be happy. Also we should always keep an open mind.
Simply put: If you dot like what they say, ignor them. But at least take into account theyre point of view
NewMan
Master Don Juan
but lets remember the reason each and everyone of you is here is to pick me up. Maybe not me personally, but women.
You come on here and bash us, talk bad about us, say we don't know what we want,
But you spend an awful lot of time and effort trying to figure out how to pick us up.
I mean really think about it. Look at the number of posts and the number of members her. This whole site. Dedicated to picking up a woman like me who has no idea what she wants.
Funny if you ask me
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Could not sit through reading the replies, because I know what most of them will be saying. No d#ck waving contest for me.
But, let me put this simply. Your a woman, so I don't expect you to understand - but I'll try.
Guys initially come to this site for one of 2 main reasons:
1) they were fvcked over by a chick
Or
2) looking for an easy way to get some a##
they will quickly learn that:
1) it's easy to get pvssy.
2) No pvssy is worth the effort guys put in to get it
3) No woman is worth the pedistool the guy USED to put them on
4) Life without a woman is equally (if not more so) better than with a woman.
5) the b#tch who brought him here in the first place wasn't worth the energy he used to try and keep her
6) The hotter the woman the lower the self esteem (in general) - use it to your advantage.
7) A good night sleep is one in a bed all to yourself
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Here's what u said that is wrong.
1. Guys shouldn't take advice from other guys.
2. Girls dont dress up to impress guys.
Thats 2 basic things that you have wrong so ima have 2 say that u dont know what ur talking about.
Do a search on all my posts. I tried 2 help the guys on this board but gave up.
The Nice Guy is Gone
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I'm not even going to read the replies, because I have one of my own--and it may already be here, but what the hell:
The reason I have come to this site initially was because I did a body language search, this site came up, and I became a member. At first, yes, it was just about trying to get better with women, but then, not even a full month later, it became clear to me that this site is about becoming a better person, and the women will come. That being said, I do take a break from this site every once in a while. The reason I come back on here is because sometimes you need a little shove to do things that cause you to feel better about yourself. All in all, you show up, post something like this, and it's just to start some sh!t. You're probably one of the women these guys are talking badly about--I mean, come on, all you're looking for is attention and drama, so get over yourself, and post something productive, or not at all.
The Nice Guy is Gone
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and how much time do women take to get ready for a single date. maybe not endless, but enough to make men wait--and men don't like to wait--at least I don't.
Shiz Nizzle
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I like this girl. She's spicy.
Even though it goes against my beliefs i gotta know what she looks like.
The rest of you shouldn't be sucked in by her spicy ways. I'm a professional.
I'm one step above a Don Juan, I'm the Shiz Nizzle.
BlackAccord
Don Juan
every girl wants there 'knight in shining armor', some settle for less, but they still compete for the best guy until they are convinced they are 'in love' and the search is over
if a girl can claim to get any guy in a bar at any time and score with them that night, then she's in the wrong bar with the wrong sort of guys
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.