"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You ask for advice then flame when its given.

syncmaster

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I don't understand... you all ask for advice, for routines and suggestions then when we give it to you you flame us. What do you want?
Is it because we're not saying "it's ok, better luck next time." I'm not your fvcking mother - i'm not gonna tell you you're good and pat you on the back when clearly you need a boot in the ass.
It's frustrating as hell for the few of us that post articles and tips to get flamed left right and centre all the fvcking time. What is our motivation to stick around and possibly help when everywhere we turn we're getting slammed up against a wall.

I like routines, yes i can run game without them but i like them because it frees my mind to be more observant to the social dynamics of the group. Who is making eye contact, who isn't. It's a script that I can follow so i can do other stuff at the same time. Driving in a car is a routine. If you had to "wing it" everytime you drove a car you'd never be able to talk on a cell phone at the same time. It's the exact same thing.
The more you practice the better you become - there is no substitute for actual field experience.

Ask and you shall receive but don't expect anybody to keep posting advice if you're going to continually flame people.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wowiehowie

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Dude, we're all soooo sorry. Alllow us to prostrate and suplicate ourselves to you.

Dude, I so wanna hang out with you in the field . Think of how invaluable it will be for me!! Dude, please, please, PLEASE!!! let me be your buddy. I wanna learn from you man.

For the record, i don't recall asking anybody's advice. I however, act as a consultant. Listen, if you post cheesy things , then reasonably expect to have other opinions be heard. You are a big boy, aren't cha??? So grow some thicker skin.
 

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Originally posted by syncmaster
I don't understand... you all ask for advice, for routines and suggestions then when we give it to you you flame us. What do you want?
Is it because we're not saying "it's ok, better luck next time." I'm not your fvcking mother - i'm not gonna tell you you're good and pat you on the back when clearly you need a boot in the ass.
It's frustrating as hell for the few of us that post articles and tips to get flamed left right and centre all the fvcking time. What is our motivation to stick around and possibly help when everywhere we turn we're getting slammed up against a wall.

I like routines, yes i can run game without them but i like them because it frees my mind to be more observant to the social dynamics of the group. Who is making eye contact, who isn't. It's a script that I can follow so i can do other stuff at the same time. Driving in a car is a routine. If you had to "wing it" everytime you drove a car you'd never be able to talk on a cell phone at the same time. It's the exact same thing.
The more you practice the better you become - there is no substitute for actual field experience.

Ask and you shall receive but don't expect anybody to keep posting advice if you're going to continually flame people.
Posts: 2065
Age: 19

That many posts and you're still a little *****.
 

Chrisman

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Look, you're pissing and moaning about it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Re:

I applaud sync's tenacity at getting through to the young and old, alike, but as evidenced by the replies to this post, it only spurs the agitators further.

As stated before, GUYS DO NOT WANT TO BE MADE BETTER or LISTEN. People are very selective about what it is they want and don't want, and try to fit it into their mold. See Finances. See Politics. See Religion. See Relationships.

Guys that come here don't want anything, except to continue to come here, and possibly be "part" of the game.

Furthermore, to those troll-like posters replying, I don't recall, or even see where he singled out your names. So evidently some of you have guilty consciences.



A-Unit
 

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Re: Re: You ask for advice then flame when its given.

Originally posted by Chrisman
Posts: 2065
Age: 19

That many posts and you're still a little *****.
HAHAHA and at 22 you have had so much more life experience.... *cough* wanker *cough*

In response to Sync...man people will either take advice or reject...if they reject it that is their issue and due to their limiting beliefs so who cares if they try and flame you, you know what works, If they dont listen tough luck to them.
 

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It's a free country, and folks are free to reject good advice, or accept bad advice. Sometimes advice that's good for one person might be bad for another. It's up to the individual to decide what is good advice for them personally.

Because the advice on SS is given freely, I would say to any complainers: You get what you pay for, and if you feel the advice here is bad, go somewhere else where you're happy with the advice given.

This is the internet. There's going to be trolls, flamers, AW's, etc. on any board you visit. If you look for knowledge on the 'net, you'll have to dig through mountains of crap to find the few nuggets of wisdom. That probably won't ever change, and flaming someone won't raise the level of posted wisdom, and does no good for our brothers who need our help.
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Originally posted by GirlCrazy
It's a free country, and folks are free to reject good advice, or accept bad advice. Sometimes advice that's good for one person might be bad for another. It's up to the individual to decide what is good advice for them personally.

Because the advice on SS is given freely, I would say to any complainers: You get what you pay for, and if you feel the advice here is bad, go somewhere else where you're happy with the advice given.

This is the internet. There's going to be trolls, flamers, AW's, etc. on any board you visit. If you look for knowledge on the 'net, you'll have to dig through mountains of crap to find the few nuggets of wisdom. That probably won't ever change, and flaming someone won't raise the level of posted wisdom, and does no good for our brothers who need our help.
lol


This post is proof that Sosuave has gone to sh!t.... A few years ago you didn't need to dig through mountains of crap to find the few nuggets.. they were all nuggets.

The advice given by a select few is universal...... People only want to hear certain answers, and the bigger the AFC, the more he's bound to reject the "good" advice simply because it doesn't adhere to his mindest at that given moment... he'd rather believe that the "Disney" fairytale is right in front of him.:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by GirlCrazy
It's a free country, and folks are free to reject good advice, or accept bad advice. Sometimes advice that's good for one person might be bad for another. It's up to the individual to decide what is good advice for them personally.
wtf are you talking about ? what is all this mummabo jumbo ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PRMoon

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2000+ post and you still can't get over the posers?

If people want to flame then let them flame. You should definatley know not to take it to heart at this point.

Maybe a few more years and a few thousand more post will help you catch up with the rest of us.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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