'YOU' are the source of a girl's happiness ?

[KneghtRyder]

do you notice, that sometimes , a guy, or the relationship with him is the most important thing to a girl .. that relationship with you is so important to her sometimes.

I dont usually like discuss what women care about or their feelings, but I am throwing this out there for discussion and I could be completely wrong others may have a different experience, and might think that women could be completely apathetic and this not neccessary accurate but just throwing it out there for discussion.


She acts like you are the reason for her happiness.

do you think you can be the source for a girls entire happiness. I mean, when you are with her, she is happy..literally your presence makes her happy, And when you are not there, she is dull.. I think prehaps because she feels that when theres someone out there who thinks shes hot, and your presence provides some type of assurance, some type of comforting to her. I guess , some one who is there to take care of her or at least cares for her something she likes to be taken care of by.. .

well , for a guy its probably a huge ego boost that you are important and have a role and are needed so i guess both needs for both parties are meant somehow.

 

[betterthandead]

I've seen this and have been in relationships with boring girls where I was a source of entertainment, an interference of a sort. You definitely want to be with someone that excites you and engages you, vice versa.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

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do you think you can be the source for a girls entire happiness. I mean, when you are with her, she is happy..literally your presence makes her happy, And when you are not there, she is dull.. ....

Sounds like a lot of maintenance to me. It would be easier to just get her hooked on something else like crack.

 

[penkitten]

if this website preaches that a woman can not make you (a man) happy then it should preach that a man can not make a woman happy either.
happiness is something that you can not provide for someone else.
happiness is not a person, or an object.
happiness is an emotion that only you can give yourself.
some people pursue happiness and never find it.

 

[Colossus]

The inverse of that is what brought many guys to this website. Men make women their world all the time, and end up in ruins because of it.

The problem with making a woman your whole world is that when you get screwed over (and you will), there goes everything your happiness was built on.

Other can bring you happiness, but they are never responsible for it. When your happiness is dependent upon others, you only set yourself up for a precipitous collapse into depression. Its a powerless way to live.