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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
"You are attractive but not my type"
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TheMonkeyKing
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Exactly. Translation is different to comprehension. The only thing you ever need to comprehend, is the message; the words used are inconsequential.
The only two messages you are required to comprehend, either resulting from her words or her actions:
-"I'm interested"
-"I'm not interested"
Asking oneself anything more than this is over analysis.
"I don't find you attractive."
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Sh could've thought you look good but likes a less handsome but more grimey guy
Who knows what the reason was. Maybe she found you attractive but you reminded her of an ex. Maybe she's lying and doesn't really find you attractive at all. Bottom line is isn't interested. It sucks but at least you know up front. Hey you never know maybe your paths will connect again and next time you might find her attractive but not your type. If only.
custardpie
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It means her pvssy doesn't get wet for you for some reason, but not because you have an ugly face. Basically.