ImprovingJuan
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can you translate this from ******** to normal language please
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
"You are attractive but not my type"
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Translation:
"Go climb a tree!"
Aka 'not interested'
"Go climb a tree!"
Aka 'not interested'
ImprovingJuan
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thanks guys
wifehunter
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Aka... get frame
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
PeasantPlayer
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There's truth to this from my own perspective I have found certain women attractive, but not my type, paradox
sazc
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There is something about you that she didn't find compatible but she does agree that you are attractive.
I went on a date yesterday and he was a very nice guy and attractive enough but his philosophy on custody with his children and mine differed to the point of where I knew we would have some fundamental mismatches in terms of values.
That's really what it means
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
"Not my type" Is usually the response I give to interested girls who have different values, tats, too many piercings etc. They could be the hottest girl I've seen, but still, not my type.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Mike32ct
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Exactly. But typically too clean cut.
RangerMIke
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She was trying to let you down nicely, but she just isn't attracted to you. Not a fvcking thing you can do about this, move onto the next one. The only thing you can do at this point is to completely forget about her.
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Your princess is in another castle. Her pu$$y dried up. Sorry.
Anything other than a yes complete with the proper actions to back it up is a no.
Case closed. On to the next.
Anything other than a yes complete with the proper actions to back it up is a no.
Case closed. On to the next.
devilkingx2
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no you can't, that's just woman nonsense.
if you're not attracted to someone you can only assume they are attractive
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You are not hideous to her. Theoretically she could smash you. It means that once her options dry up you MIGHT get a shot. But she has to be seriously out of options. This level of pickiness is only rampant in the West. Women have so many options these days that they can pass up attractive guys that are not their exact type. They have the sexual market value to be able to get ( at least for sex) their exact type. Why would they bother with anything less? In rare occassions i have seen women go back to guys they have said this too. But this is extremely rare occassions when their options dried up because they lived in a foreign country or they got old.
This is similar to the guy that gets soo much hot tail that he can turn down a average girl because her toes didnt look right or something. Dont take it too personally. This is simply a matter of sexual economics. I am sure she does find you attractive but not attractive enough to beat out the guys who are EXACTLY her type.
A women has said this to me before. But then she proceeded to parade me around her friends as some sort of prize. I was her date to some dance. But i still didnt get the pu**y. So yeh basically just move on. You will hear from her in about 2 years when she is out of options. Ignore the call.
This is similar to the guy that gets soo much hot tail that he can turn down a average girl because her toes didnt look right or something. Dont take it too personally. This is simply a matter of sexual economics. I am sure she does find you attractive but not attractive enough to beat out the guys who are EXACTLY her type.
A women has said this to me before. But then she proceeded to parade me around her friends as some sort of prize. I was her date to some dance. But i still didnt get the pu**y. So yeh basically just move on. You will hear from her in about 2 years when she is out of options. Ignore the call.
MatureDJ
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When I am not interested in a woman, but I believe that many other folks would find her at least as attractive, then this would apply. For example, a lot of men like skinny women that have skinny hips; I don't care for this type of woman as I like a woman with a good baby-making pelvis. I must admit that outside that, pretty much every thing I like in a gal is what every other man likes in a gal. And of course, I haven't discussed race, so that;s as easy one when someone could fine someone not interesting but a lot of others would.
All that said, it is more or less a putdown, but a woman might like slender wiry men more attractive than muscular he-men, so they could be some anecdotes where this is accurate.
All that said, it is more or less a putdown, but a woman might like slender wiry men more attractive than muscular he-men, so they could be some anecdotes where this is accurate.
BeExcellent
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It's how a woman with manners rejects you. Politely.
"Woman nonsense", where do you come up with this crap? lol
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
"How has that worked out for you?". If her type works out so well wouldn't she be with them?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.