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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
"You are attractive but not my type"
- Thread starter ImprovingJuan
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
TheMonkeyKing
Master Don Juan
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Exactly. Translation is different to comprehension. The only thing you ever need to comprehend, is the message; the words used are inconsequential.
The only two messages you are required to comprehend, either resulting from her words or her actions:
-"I'm interested"
-"I'm not interested"
Asking oneself anything more than this is over analysis.
"I don't find you attractive."
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Sh could've thought you look good but likes a less handsome but more grimey guy
Who knows what the reason was. Maybe she found you attractive but you reminded her of an ex. Maybe she's lying and doesn't really find you attractive at all. Bottom line is isn't interested. It sucks but at least you know up front. Hey you never know maybe your paths will connect again and next time you might find her attractive but not your type. If only.
custardpie
Don Juan
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It means her pvssy doesn't get wet for you for some reason, but not because you have an ugly face. Basically.