"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You already knew about the 80/20 rule.

Dedication

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Here is a tip to 80% of the lurkers out there. Create an account and contribute something to this site :flowers: you can do it here are some examples:

- Help new members grow by giving your advice on something you have dealt with before.
- Give props to some bad ass posters :up: *PM them if you're shy*
- Resolve world hunger or fix global warming
- Begin from scratch and make yourself an living example to follow
- Or just give us something creative, its always good :cool:

You know you want to be a DJ.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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S.U.R.F.

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im a lurker, and i promise to contribute more!
 

DryBones

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Yeah, I've lurked for a while so I guess I'll contribute more. Or anything. Both are viable options.
 

Rez

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I'm not a lurker, but I'd like to add a few more bullet points to the original post:

* Reach down into your pants (with a clean hand) and make sure you still have balls.

* Don't be afraid to ask for advice. Sometimes there can be several different people who are going through the same thing as you are. This is a great way to bring everyone into the party.

* If you ever see Mystery or Style, tell them to kiss because the sexual tension between those two is overwhelming!

* Lastly, leeching from others without contributing anything original of your own is a great way to go nowhere. So don't do this and feel free to share openly.

Thanks for the thread Dedication!
 

naSTIboost

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I've been a lurker for a few days but I recently created an account. I'm an AFC in rehab but hopefully on my way to becoming a Don Juan. The most important thing I've learned over my 26 years is that if ANY girl is standoffish/*****y towards you in the LEAST... turn walk the other way and move onto the next one. This will save time, frustration, and boost confidence...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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YAboi

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BASICALLY THE WAY THE FORUM works is that subconscious messages are planted in your head as you read. If everyone posts negative stuff, then when you come on the site and read, you will begin to only see the downsides of life when you are out in real life.

My point is that anyone who posts should try and ask constructive questions that are not too whiny e.g just like that poster called Goldstar was asking about negative inner thoughts based innergame in a thread he made. He did not whine , moan or complain and he got absolutely brilliant answers. This is the same way that other members should ask questions . If you are a noobie, you are excused (for your first few times) but if you have been on the site for long, do not put everyone else on a downer with negative bullsh1t that you spout. Try not to moan so much and try to ask the right questions in a clear manner.

Props to the OP FOR this thread +1 rep
 

thedoc

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Isn't the rule 90/10? :confused:

Haha either way nice post, I think it encourages a lot of people who shy away from posting who fear negative criticism. :up:
 

Don Wha

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I've been a 2 week lurker and I've learned tons from the board. Some stuff i already knew, some stuff i needed to refresh myself on and some stuff is completely new and completely amazing. Created a new account and actually helped someone out ( I think). Thanks for posting this, it definitely encouraged my to actually make the account. It has been less than a week and I'm on post #6. WATCH OUT NOW!

-Don Wha in the making.
 
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