"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yooo what happened !

Bawb14

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=\ Yo i was doing so good too, I had a girlfriend for a good long while and I was chillen with lots of girls talking flirting being a total Gangsta. Now the last two months i havent gotten any play, the only girl who did all of a sudden got a boyfriend who's like 20, and the other girl i was trying to get with just got with my like... almost best friend nigga. I mean damn what happened, I fell off! I havent even been back to this site in a long time, because i thought i was doing good. Anyone got any words to cheer me up =\ i feel like an emo as ***** like a girl kinda **** writing this ****
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Cassanova_Child

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man up. you sound like a retarded man-***** (no offence lol, but with the 'nigga', and 'Gangsta' and no punctuation) :yes:

but yeah, everyone goes through slumps. if this is a recent thing, give it some time before you start complaining.
 

Bawb14

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sorry man im not retarded im really smart but i dunno i talk online like i talk in life and sh1t... but like i dunno its not even a short time slump its like more than two months really like four!
 

Cassanova_Child

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hahaha, i'm sure you're pretty smart dude, most guys on this site are :). well, 4 months is a long time: have you been doing anything differently in your life? anything happen in your family or stuff that could be affecting your game?
 

Bawb14

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Yo i dont know man im depressed as hell right now all of the girls i liked didnt like me back all my sh1t just fvcked up...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Analyzeit

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Yeah i screwed everything up today aswell, alcohol really does screw up your game (never ever have more then a few ever!! words of experience)

and guess what im very depressed, was going so well then everything ****ed up! as it does, i'm living my what goes around comes around so only good things can happen now haha,

Anyway just push on, what else can ya do really

learn from your mistakes!!
 

Cassanova_Child

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Analyzeit said:
Yeah i screwed everything up today aswell, alcohol really does screw up your game (never ever have more then a few ever!! words of experience)

and guess what im very depressed, was going so well then everything ****ed up! as it does, i'm living my what goes around comes around so only good things can happen now haha,

Anyway just push on, what else can ya do really

learn from your mistakes!!
nah, alcohol doesnt screw your game up; TOO MUCH alcohol screws your game up. This I think is very important, 1 or 2 drinks loosens you up, gets you pumped, and makes you retarded enough to stop giving a rats ****. More than that can mess your game up, because you get to the point wher eyou just do retarded ****.

but back on topic, like everyones said, you just gotta keep going and see if things change.
 

eaglez1177

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Heres some good advice:

Start small and work your way up to bigger things. Cut your losses and forget about all those super hot girls you were chasing. Im guessing your broken up with your gf, so dont worry, the few months after breaking up with a gf ALWAYS SUCK for EVERYONE. What your going through is normal. You just gotta start back at square one with those average looking girls (just so you can get back into the game and get your groove back), and then move up to hotter ones.

I know EXACTLY how you feel right now bro cuz im going through the same down time as you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It's-Me

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Analyzeit said:
Yeah i screwed everything up today aswell, alcohol really does screw up your game (never ever have more then a few ever!! words of experience)
I strongly disagree.

I always get drunk or at least sober at parties, and I find myself to have even better game. A few days ago, I was drunk at a party, made out with 3 girls, gave MY number to about 6 girls and they wanted to take pictures with me. Girls were all over me and I was being introduced to everyone.

Alcohol is awesome. There's a reason it's called the "conversation starter".
 
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